While I agree with you that Disney does alot of things well, I dont feel that we are getting as much in return for our dollars as we used to. I remember back in 2005 doing a split stay in a courtyard view room at WL and a Arusha Savanna view at AKL. With my AP discount I got both rooms for $149.00 per night. Now I'm lucky to get a moderate room for that with the same AP discount. I used to get those moderate room for around $79.00/night with my AP discount,jsut a few years ago. I can now book through one of the third party companies and stay right onsite at Wyndham Bonnet Creek in a one bedroom condo, cheaper than I can stay at a Value using a discount.
Disney is building the new Fantasyland, but it's taking them forever. At the same time Universal is extending Harry Potter land, building Transformers, the new Simpsons land, extending and building more in Jurassic Park, and are in talks with the Tolkien heirs about building a Lord of the Rings land. They also give their annual passholders great perks (free parking, great room discounts, discounts on all merchandise, 10% off all meals---counter service as well as table service).
As far as not feeling like a vacation, if you are offsite, we stayed at Westgate Town Center last Oct/Nov and was just five minutes from the Disney gate. We could be at Animal Kindom quicker than most people onsite could. If you look at the map, you will see that Wyndham Bonnet Creek is physically onsite and closer to the parks than alot of the Disney owned resorts. I am not a fan of the Disney buses and can get to the parks quicker with a rental car and I like having the freedom to run over to Publix,
WalMart, the outlet malls, or Universal if I want. I also like alot of the offsite restaurants more and they are ALOT cheaper than the ones onsite, so we'll eat lunch onsite, then most dinners offsite. I too always said I would never stay offsite and just couldn't understand anyone even wanting too, until we tried it last fall. We love the extra space, for alot less money and still being close to all the parks. Plus with a rental car we are just minutes from Sea World, Universal, Gator Land, ect. Sounds like a great WDW vacation, with alot of extras thrown in for good measure.