I totally agree, the parks are definitely more "intimate" LOL I go several times a year and it feels like there are ALOT more people going. Maybe they are not at capacity but they are having a larger frequency of larger numbers of guests
Gate Attendance is reported quite simply...you walk through, it registers, its reported.
So the Magic Kingdom, had 16,972,000 (rounded) humans walk through the turnstiles in 2010 - which is the last year were figures have been released.
That is down from 2009 and at the rough 2008 levels. When the 2011 numbers are released, they will be down again - by disney's own admission that their bookings and attendance were off in 2011.
So, whatever the "feel" of parks...there are fewer people in them. Simple mathematic figures.
Now....there's alot of ways where your specific travel dates can affect your perceptions...for instance:
We are going at the end of march....which a couple of years ago i would have avoided like the plague...and were able to choose from 5 different DVC sites for our room on 2 1/2 months notice and have full dining options - including cinderellas - open to us...as of now. I just checked.
On the night of 3/23 - a friday - for dinner there are reservations available for 70 of 73 possible locations...and the three that arent are Tuottu Italia, Rainforest (blah) at Downtown, and 'Ohana...thats at 55 days out.
Maybe this stuff doesn't mean anything to you...but if you have been observing WDW crowds as closely as i have for quite awhile...this is shocking.
Even when its not the easter weeks block...from mid february to may 1 has been packed for along time.
And either it will seem rather dead when we get there, or it will seem more crowded than what their bookings are showing.
Either way...it shows a decline in business from the past.
Now...WDW has seen a consistent attendance growth due to increased lodging and changing travel patterns/ levels since its inception...and had this been 2007 or early 2008 and you would say "its getting crowded...we need another park" - i would have been considering it myself.
But that is not what the numbers are showing....they've hit a wall. It's probably economics...but it might be just that they've kinda gotten to their saturation...
And if that's the case...we will never see another park...
I'm not saying that it hasn't been more or less crowded
when you were there...but the overall picture is not one where executives would waste 1 second considering dumping billions (yes...thats what a new park would cost...multiple billions) into a gate to "thin out the crowds".
It is just not realistic in any way.