Here's my question:
DS15 has Asperger's Syndrome and is very ADD...and is also identified as gifted. He takes mostly pre-AP, AP and G/T classes. He does fine - A's and B's...but with his grades and the extreme competitiveness of our high school, he will probably graduate in about the top quarter of the class. He is invovled in choir and will probably make Eagle Scout next year. He has a few friends, but is certainly never going to be elected to a leadership position in a school organization.
On rare occasions, he describes how he "sees" the world and what he experiences. With his neurolgical issues, it is absolutely remarkable that he does as well at school as he does.
The issue is, when it comes time to apply for college, should he mention Asperger's Syndrome anywhere? I know that LOTS of people still don't know what AS is. I think that if he was blind or deaf or in a wheelchair and had achieved what he has, people would think he had excelled. But as it is, he will look like he did "fine" in school, without any remarkable achievements.
What do you think?