Invited to a wedding but not attending. Send a gift?

[disneydreamersx4]

Oh wow, she really did that? That's so tacky. You just DON'T tell people where your registered unless asked. If I didn't know the people well, I wouldn't send a gift.

exactly!

 

[onelilspark]

I'm not one that thinks all brides are out for gifts when they invite people to weddings.

That being said...um yeah...this is a gift grab. I wouldn't feel obligated to send a gift to someone I haven't seen or talked to in 10 years.

 

[Rora]

I was all ready to say send a token gift until we got to the Facebook part about saying where she is registered.

Send a card, no gift.

My thoughts exactly.