I agree! And if every member of every party was in line with their strollers...can you even imagine what the line would look like

Many of the counter service lines won't even accomodate a stroller. I think the big issue is people sitting at tables who are not eating there. They have no way of telling who is legitimately waiting for food, and those taking a break.
There is a BIG difference between Disney's rules and DisBoarders rules!!
And as for pool hopping...if you ask the lifeguards themselves THEY say it is allowed. I've never done it, due to the whole wet suit issue, but Disney allows it. I asked last fall when my friend and I were staying at different resorts, and neither resort had a problem with it. The concierge at her resort even suggested we go try out the pool at "another" resort.
Lastly- I agree with having my own fun. I am way too busy making magical memories with my own family. Why would I care what you are doing with yours?? Unless I just like creating drama everywhere I go- NOT!!