I understand that, at very busy times, there are families with food on their trays with no where to sit. and other families at tables with no food. the families WITH food could have finished eating and been done and gone, before the family at the empty table even gets their food. I guess that's why disney had CMS at those locations, to control this.
if there IS no CM controlling this, then it is up to you. maybe mom wants to sit down with the 1 year old and feed him the baby food while dad and the 5 year old gets the other food. then mom can actually enjoy her meal!
if we "have" a table, and there is room, we "let" others sit with us. why not? it's not a private thanksgiving dinner, after all. once Dh and I asked if we could sit at 2 em[pty seats at a table and were told "no". it was their table... oh well.
It's a matter of planning. people who don't plan always get mad at those who do. just like those who show up behind you 5 minutes before spectromagic and
insist that you let them in front of you, because their kids are shorter than your kids. or illuinations. if you stake out a spot an hour ahead of time, people will come up at the last minute and tell you their kids can't see. ok, so you let the little kids stand in front of you. then mom says "I have to be WITh her, she's too little to be out of my sight" or "I want to be WITH him, I want to see his face". next thing you know, you wasted an hour staking out a spot for some strangers whose dad's big head is right in front of you, cause he snaked his way in your line of sight to talk to the child and point out what he should look at. (no good deed goes unpunsihed) you started out letting the children in front of you, next mom and dad and teenager and aunt Edna are ALL in front of you. and you wasted an hour staking out a spot.
once I saw an open spot. we went to claim it, and dad said "I am saving this for my wife and kids. great dad! that's the way to do it! we helped him make sure no one else "muscled" their way in, he waited a long time, as we did, mom kept the kids occupied doing something else, and 15 minutes before the show they showed up, we stood behind the kids. they didn't EXPECT to show up at the last minute and say "they're little!!!!"
at a CS restaurant, if mom has to breastfeed one, while dad feeds another babyfood, (while the older kids eat), then mom and dad finally get to eat their COLD food, it will take more time anyway. and I, for one, would rather not have all those kids jamming up the line and when it's time to order, trying to decide what they want. It's so much easier for them to be seated, and dad brings them what HE decided they are eating. (and he's not chasing one kid who ran out of line, while mom is trying to pacify the crying baby, and the third kid all of a sudden decides they don't want chicken nuggets after all and has a tantrum.) because that's what kids do. they're not bad, they're just kids. he could tell you for 2 hours, he wants chicken nuggets, and when you get to the front of the line, he wants a hot dog!... mom and little ones are at the table, dad brings the food, problem solved. we're all happy!
