Inkedupmommas getting married y'all! A WPJ & Disneyfamilymoon PTR!OMG, TR link is UP!

I can't believe how big the kids are! :)
I know :(
Well, a lot has happened for me...I got my Masters, got married, got a house and puppy, and now am a substitute teacher! Our honeymoon TR link is in my signature! I'm still writing it!
Wow, wow, wow! and super yay to jobs and puppies... babies soon...?

Couples fght....some more than others (like me and Dh). There are days I don't like him very much, but I will always love him. Marriage/relationships are hard work and there will be times you are fighting.....getting thru it will be worth it!

Things are super stressful right now so the fighting may be more than normal. This too shall pass!

I am still trying to figur out a way to crash your wedding (kidding!).....cause I think it will be AWESOME!

I thin Kayla's dress is adorable!!!
:) I'm flattered that you think my wedding is crash worthy! and thanks for sympathizing! Some days there I was like, are we the only ones lol!

Can't waaaait for more!

:goodvibes
In summary since its late.... Love Kayla's dress, the baby looks edible, bow ties rock, sorry Jack's bio dad is acting like a feminine rinsing product, jack looks so grown up for basketball and YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED SOON! Yay! Oh and Kayla's bday seemed awesome, I think that about covers it. :)
LMFAO at feminine rinsing product !!!!! I think I love you!

Awesome update. Can't wait to see you guys. Don't worry about planning for Disney, . . I did that for us. Ha ha.

And you have inspired me to try and finish my PTR, even if no one reads mine. Lol.
I'm glad one of us has been on the ball! SO EXCITED TO SEE YOU!

Everything looks wonderful! The wedding, Kayla's dress, her birthday trip and I am loving your Disney jam picture! It is going to be spectacular!
eeeep! thank you!!!

Sorry about the stuff with Jack's dad, sounds like he's freaking out about the wedding and trying to insert his own control there, feeling like your marrying is taking Jack further away. Though I hate to say this, as you and Bob clearly provide a full family for Jack, if his dad does actually choose to be more involved and follow through with it, it may be good for Jack. As one who's ex walked away completely, it's hard on the kids who've been ditched and as one married to someone who fights for every inch of time he can get, it's hard on the other side too. I just hope if he went to all that trouble he actually sticks with it but wouldn't be surprised if over time, things like Christmas etc slide away.

I agree with everything you said.. it being good for Jack, but as Bob says, give him what he wants, thats when he stops coming around.. sadly it's more about control than actually caring about seeing Jack!
 
We are trying! I'm getting very antsy. It is hard not to get frustrated! PM me if you have any tips. :)

best tip, stop trying! Just have fun practicing! My girlfriend spent SO much money and heartache on having her 2nd one who just turned 2 in October, and she just found out 2 months ago, shes pregnant with number 3! Not planned or trying at all! Crazy!
 
Hey guys! No pics tonight, but you'll be proud to know that I have tackled some major wedding projects!

First things first, we had our final meeting with our DJ, who I actually love on a friend level! He's a funny guy! Hoping the friendship doesn't mean hes a sucky DJ :scared: He is also providing our photo booth which I am also super excited about!

That leads me to first wedding project of Sunday, find a guestbook and scrap booking stuff for guests to use when they leave their copy of the photo strip! I know, I know, I know, very ambitious of me, but I'm hoping we get a few fun pages out of it, or at the very least the pics and their names signed! We ended up with this very simple, all in one scrapbookesque item from Michaels

SMASH Book, but ours is in the brown and the binding part is purple

We bought some stamps, ink, and stickers to go along with it, as well as glue dots! We also have a number of props for the photo booth, and may provide some disposables just for funsies! we're hoping photo booth attendant will remind people to place their photos in the book and have fun with it!

We even stopped for a nice lunch at P.F. Changs where Bob was all giddy about the honeymoon and wanted to know what we all were most excited about going back to Disney for... Kayla and I both replied with food answers, and that disappointed Bob and made me lol, like mother like daughter!

After that we came home, and chilled out for a bit.. and I do mean a bit!

After our short rest, it was time to get it together and head to the Inn where our wedding will be! We were having our potentially final meeting with our wedding coordinator. She has NOT been helpful by any means, and I have spent most of the time annoyed at them, but she was on point at the meeting and I felt MUCH more assured that things would go well! We finalized our menu, discussed timeline, took measurements for our DJ. All in all it went well.. we also ate dinner there lol!~ We really do enjoy their food!

We got home around 7:20 and started getting the kids to bed and then I started on the most dreaded project I have been avoiding....... the dreaded seating plan :crazy2::scared1:

It ended up being SO easy! I didn't have much trouble at all! Only a couple, where should I seat them moments which were fixed almost instantly! I was pretty darn proud!

The next day I had work, but Bob was off. Sadly we have decided that Riley dog will NOT be in the wedding. Truth be told, I am RELIEVED! Sad, but relieved! It just wasn't working out! The person I had hoped would ring him and take care of him couldn't do it, and I just couldn't find anyone else! I was having nightmares about him pulling someone down the aisle and then whining through the whole ceremony! So I spent yesterday morning researching local kennels while Bob took him to the vet for his yearly physical and update on vaccines (read spent a lot of money!). Luckily I found a great one, and it is very close to us and came highly recommended from other dog walkers! So he is all set up for his first doggy daycare visit the day/night of our wedding! I hope he doesn't hate us! Bob also went out that day and bought him a new crate... he has now chewed through not one but TWO metal wire crates.. how? impossible? No way? Yes, yes, way, he did! Snapped those wires right off! So we have now invested in a plastic one that has no wires or big spaces for him to chew out of! PRAY that it works!

Once I was done work we met back at home, waited for the kids to get home from school then dropped them at great grandmas!

After that we went to Target and purchased items for the bathrooms for during the weddings.. sprays, bobby pins, tums, mints, kleenex, etc.... I always love those baskets! lol I had fun with that one, like going back to school, school supply shopping fun! We even had time for a date night dinner! Yeah.. we ate out a lot lately! We are DEF in vacation mode already!

After dinner I started feeling REALLY sick! I've been battling what I think is turning into bronchitis. I say think as my mom, sister, nephew,bob, jack, grandma and Bobs brother all just ad it and I have been with all of them!

We came home, I sat on couch and next thing I remember is waking up 2 hours later to Bob cleaning like a fool! Apparently my body needed rest! Still does :rolleyes: I'm going to bed after this!!

I woke up this morning still not feeling great, but bob woke up early and he got kids ready for school and took Jack to bus stop so i could rest.... what I actually did was talk to Sophia on AIM for a couple hours and worked on assigning the number of each kind of meal to the tables I had made up! It was actually easy as well! Luckily, I've stayed pretty organized throughout with spreadsheets and what not!

Then I went to work, and then I was near Davids Bridal, so I figured I'd pop in and see my dress.. tried it on...STILL doesn't fit! Thank god it's being let out.. but BOO TO ME! :blush::(:worried: I'm definitely ashamed of myself! With that said, I LOVE my dress lol!

After that I came home, cleaned up a bit, and then when kids both were home I ran to my friend Caras who is working on my super special, super secret cake toppers! They are Disney, nerdy, and video game related! You'll just have to stay tuned for that one!

OH, I also ordered Bobs secret surprise cuff links, and my wedding Jewelry over the past few days!

http://www.etsy.com/listing/64186340/wood-burned-personalized-wood-tree-trunk


My http://www.anntaylor.com/ann/produc...tPageType=fullPriceProducts&defaultColor=9045 and my braclet

I also managed to fit in a small food shop, cleaning and wrote our welcome letter tonight!

I am now exhausted and feeling awful! But proud and excited that I got so much done! Tomorrow we are hoping to get our licenses all fixed up (wrong address on mine, he lost his :headache:) and then head to court house to apply for our marriage license !

and since it is now after 12 I can say 16 days til our wedding and 18 il our Disneymoon!


HOLY COW you guys!!

Now.. any tips on what to put in welcome bags? I know h is mom bought some stuf, and I got local maps and brochures.. anything you have loved in ones you have received? Keeping costs reasonable that is!

OKOKOK, going to bed! Night!
 

Wow what a crazy busy few days. It must feel great that things are coming together nicely and easier then expected.

I love the idea of the Smash book. We had disposable cameras on the tables at my wedding and some of the pictures I got out of them were so hilarious!!

I absolutely love that bracelet!! Beautiful!! You are going to look so beautiful "chic"! :)

Take care of yourself, maybe a trip to the doc would be good. You don't want to be sick at your wedding and you definitely don't want to be sick in WDW. Trust me last time we went I developed a bad case of pneumonia and didn't enjoy part of my trip.
Take care and get some rest.
 
Wow, wow, wow. What a busy past few days. And to be sick on top of it! Yuck! I hope you get better!

I love your dress. It's going to look beautiful on you! They will make it fit you just right.

Enjoy these next few weeks. I swear the closer it got to wedding day, the faster time flew. And remember to breathe and enjoy the actual day. It felt like such a blur to DH and me.

I can't think of anything exactly to put in welcome bags. I think if you can think of some personal touches about you guys or a picture of you guys in there might be nice.
 
WOW girl, you been busy.

You are on a roll. I am glad everything is going well for you

I am with the PP, get yourself to a doctor, you don't want bronchitis to turn into pneumonia. :hug:

I love the smash book.

That bracelet is very pretty

Not sure about the welcome bag as I didn't have anyone from out of town really, but I think I put some snacks and maybe bottle water in them.
 
Wow what a crazy busy few days. It must feel great that things are coming together nicely and easier then expected.

I love the idea of the Smash book. We had disposable cameras on the tables at my wedding and some of the pictures I got out of them were so hilarious!!

I absolutely love that bracelet!! Beautiful!! You are going to look so beautiful "chic"! :)

Take care of yourself, maybe a trip to the doc would be good. You don't want to be sick at your wedding and you definitely don't want to be sick in WDW. Trust me last time we went I developed a bad case of pneumonia and didn't enjoy part of my trip.
Take care and get some rest.
It was a busyy couple days, and man DOES it feel good to finally have things coming together! No doc.. too far away , however, I have been resting much more, and taking vitamins and such like it is my job! hmm.. my necklace didn't show up.. I'll have to show that link!

Wow, wow, wow. What a busy past few days. And to be sick on top of it! Yuck! I hope you get better!

I love your dress. It's going to look beautiful on you! They will make it fit you just right.
thank you so much!

Enjoy these next few weeks. I swear the closer it got to wedding day, the faster time flew. And remember to breathe and enjoy the actual day. It felt like such a blur to DH and me.
I'm h oping it's less blurry and more finally for us.. if that makes sense? I can honestly say, I have enjoyed most of it and it has gone by memorably and honestly, much easier than I thought it would!
I can't think of anything exactly to put in welcome bags. I think if you can think of some personal touches about you guys or a picture of you guys in there might be nice.
trying to figure that personal touch out...

WOW girl, you been busy.

right! I odnt always post it all on FB ;)
You are on a roll. I am glad everything is going well for you

I am with the PP, get yourself to a doctor, you don't want bronchitis to turn into pneumonia. :hug:

I love the smash book.

That bracelet is very pretty

Not sure about the welcome bag as I didn't have anyone from out of town really, but I think I put some snacks and maybe bottle water in them.

Bobs mom has bought some stuff. She got mini waters, sun chips, mints, and cereal bars... not sure what else we are adding
 
You guys.. big news! Today we went and got our marriage license! :goodvibespixiedust::lovestruc:cloud9::woohoo::banana::cool1: and then Bob started singing down the halls of the court house, I married this woman, she is my wife! It was awesome and embarrassing and now I really can't wait for the wedding!

Afterwards we celebrated at Perkins ( :rotfl::rotfl2::lmao: ) with breakast and then stopped at K-Mart for Bob to pick up some figurines to make his dudes boutineers! I was also able to score candy for the candy bar!!

All in all a SUPER productive day! 15 days you guys.. 14.5 really....! I'm like totally out of my mind excited!!

In other news, I pick up my dress tomorrow... and I'm frightened! Wish me luck!
 
inkedupmomma said:
You guys.. big news! Today we went and got our marriage license! :goodvibespixiedust::lovestruc:cloud9::woohoo::banana::cool1: and then Bob started singing down the halls of the court house, I married this woman, she is my wife! It was awesome and embarrassing and now I really can't wait for the wedding!

Afterwards we celebrated at Perkins ( :rotfl::rotfl2::lmao: ) with breakast and then stopped at K-Mart for Bob to pick up some figurines to make his dudes boutineers! I was also able to score candy for the candy bar!!

All in all a SUPER productive day! 15 days you guys.. 14.5 really....! I'm like totally out of my mind excited!!

In other news, I pick up my dress tomorrow... and I'm frightened! Wish me luck!

That is so cute!! LoL. Congrats on the marriage license!

You don't need luck everything will work out and you will be a beautiful bride sporting a beautiful dress!
 
That is so cute!! LoL. Congrats on the marriage license!

You don't need luck everything will work out and you will be a beautiful bride sporting a beautiful dress!

Thanks! I can't wait to to see how it fits.. hoping they took it out enough! I want to breathe lol
 
aw... He's too cute :goodvibes

Mmm..Love me some perkins

Sounds like a great day!!

Sure you will rock that dress ::yes::
 
I love that Bob was singing down the hall.

I predict that your dress is going to fit you perfectly and you will be a lovely bride. Let us know it goes.

:love::love::love:

xo
 
Y'all are sweet! Will try to post pics from there!

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So cute that Bob was singing in the hall after you got ml... gotta love a guy like that...:goodvibes

Love the idea of Smashbook for a wedding... they are great and what awesome memories for you to have after the wedding... the guests will love them:thumbsup2

Very Pretty Bracelet...

Your dress is going to be fab...all will be good...

I think that the best/most fun guest bags either feature "Local" stuff ie if I were getting married right now... I'd do a Philly themed bag... or why not do something that represents a common interest... hmmm... some fun Dis stuff?

Oh boy you really hate the doctor... I can tell... you sound like me when I'm trying to come up with reasons not to go... You definitely want to to take care... lots of rest, fluids, honey, cinnamon is good too...

I hope the next 2 + weeks are calm and uneventful (in a good way...:goodvibes)
 
That's so cute that Bob was singing at the court house. That's a good sign that he's so excited. :goodvibes

Hang in there-you're almost at the finish line.
 
So cute that Bob was singing in the hall after you got ml... gotta love a guy like that...:goodvibes
:cloud9:
Love the idea of Smashbook for a wedding... they are great and what awesome memories for you to have after the wedding... the guests will love them:thumbsup2
I'm hoping people see it and love it!
Very Pretty Bracelet...
Thanks, I gotta post the matching necklace! For some reason it didn't earlier!
Your dress is going to be fab...all will be good...
:scratchin
I think that the best/most fun guest bags either feature "Local" stuff ie if I were getting married right now... I'd do a Philly themed bag... or why not do something that represents a common interest... hmmm... some fun Dis stuff?
I likethe idea of local stuff, but don't want to break my bank over these.. its tough keeping costs down!

Oh boy you really hate the doctor... I can tell... you sound like me when I'm trying to come up with reasons not to go... You definitely want to to take care... lots of rest, fluids, honey, cinnamon is good too...
I actually LOVE going to the doctor. HATE the hour drive! Plus my dr is ghetto!
I hope the next 2 + weeks are calm and uneventful (in a good way...:goodvibes)
me tooooo!

That's so cute that Bob was singing at the court house. That's a good sign that he's so excited. :goodvibes

Hang in there-you're almost at the finish line.

I was elated at his excitement! He has been the upbeat planner the whole time! He's cute!

almost there.. just keep swimming!
 
OK, first off, I'm not sure why the necklace didn't link, but here is the matching necklace for the wedding and what I was really excited about! I had pinned in ages ago and just finally gave in and bought it! Figured if I kept going back to that one same piece, it was a sign! I always second guess myself!!

and here it is!

and in other very fun news, my friend Cara has been helping me design the perfect cake toppers! Only half is done, as I didn't realize I did not have the Goofy nerd vinylmation! Bad collector, bad bad bad!

Anyway, I wanted something that represented all our loves! Disney, nerdyness, and gaming!

So here is what I came up with and she made!
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What do yout think? Bobs will be the goofy version with Black Controller!

I adore them! and can't wait to surprise Bob with them!

Speaking of surprises for Bob, his cuff links arrived today.. I was thrilled, as they are not wood burned as description stated and they are HUGE! I went back and reread dimensions, but man, they should take a pic of someone wearing them! I still think he"ll like them though!

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and last but not least, my maids sent Bob and I toasting glasses ( even though I specifically asked them not to... ) At least they are pint glasses and not flutes! They are cool looking and Bob will def enjoy drinking beer out them in the future!

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If you can't tell, they look like tee trunk with our initials and wedding date "carved" in :)


OK.. leaving VERY soon to get dress... SO nervous!
 
Love cake topper. Super Cute!!!!

Those cufflinks are very unique and so cool :thumbsup2



Neat glasses, too......


Good luck at the fitting. Sure you will look Fabulous!!! :bride:
 














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