Inheritance and paying off debt - Updated post 24

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There probably isnt' a "wrong" answer to this but I wanted to get a few outside opinions. DH says it's my money and to do what I want with it so it's 100% up to me.

My grandmother died last September, and because my mother died in '07, my mother's share now goes to my brothers and I (to all of our surprise, I might add!). I'm not sure of the amount yet, all I know from my uncle is that the lawyer will be cutting the check today and that I will be "very very surprised" with it (in a good way, Uncle was very upbeat!). I didn't feel comfortable asking "how much?" but knowing a bit about what my grandmother was likely worth at her passing, I have a fair idea of the amount.

It will likely be enough to cover what we owe in CC debt. We have been on a plan to pay it down the past few years and have just recently ramped up our efforts, had this not happened we'd have been CC debt free in about 2 years. We don't have much in savings however, which has always worried me. Everytime we get a few $$$ in savings something comes along and wipes it out. We never add to our debt but can't seem to make a big dent in it or keep a decent amount in savings either.

So, our CC debt is spred over 4 credit cards. CC's 1, 2, and 3 have interest of about 6%, the 4th CC is 0% until March '13 and then it goest to 12%.

CC's 1 and 2 have very low balances, just 3k between them and I know I'll pay them off no mater what. CC 3 has a much higher balance and I figure I'll pay that off as well.

That will leave CC 4. I will likely have enough from the inheritance to pay that off in full too (or close to it), but will - unless I'm getting WAY more than I think I am - leave little to nothing left to put into savings. But, with all 4 CC's out of the way I'd be able to ramp up savings and have a decent amount in the bank by the end of the year (baring unforseen expenses).

So, should I pay off CC 4 and be done with it, or hang on to the money for a rainy day and concentrate on paying off CC 4 using our monthly income? We likely would not be able to pay it off before the 0% interest expires but we'd knock it down a fair bit. Total time to pay off CC 4 would be about 10-12 months.

Or are there other ways to work this that I'm not thinking of?

:upsidedow And this being the DIS budget board, I know I'll get a few "you need to reign in your spending so you don't rack up CC debt again". Already done, and done years ago. Our issue isn't day-to-day spending anyway, we pay off the CC we use for monthly spending (groceries, gas, etc) every month and our expenses are not out of the ordinary (mostly needs and not many wants). The CC debt was from our wedding, home repairs that couldn't wait, replacing DH's truck engine (I'd have junked the thing but it wasn't up to me) and a few other large purchases that could not be put off for various reasons. With the CC's off our back and money in the bank, we should not need to have CC debt ever again, and amen to that!

All of this said, I'd much rather have my grandmother and mother alive and well. They passed away before getting to meet my precious little girl! Or at the very least Grandma should have enjoyed her money more. But that's not how it worked out. :sad1:

ETA: Just ran the numbers and unless something unexpected popped up, we can pay off CC 4 before the 0% off expires. So we would not have to touch anything we saved from the inheritance.
 
I think I'd pay off 1, 2, and 3, and put the rest of the money in savings. Pay as much as you can on 4 until the 0% runs out, then if you need to take some out of savings to pay that off before interest kicks in, do that. Without having to make payments on the first three cards, you may be able to pay off 4 sooner than you think. Good luck!
 
First off, I'm sorry for the loss of your mom and grandmother. Two very important women in your life. Not knowing the extent of your inheritance makes it tough to comment. I think you should wait to see how much it is, and then break it down from there. I do think since they didn't get to meet your dd you should invest some of it for her future. Good luck.
 
I'd pay off 1, 2, and 3 and put the rest in savings. Since card 4 is 0% interest, you may as well put the money somewhere where it will earn some interest and give you a cushion. Keep paying off card 4 and right before the 0% interest goes away, use money from savings to pay it the rest of the way off.
 

I think I'd pay off 1, 2, and 3, and put the rest of the money in savings. Pay as much as you can on 4 until the 0% runs out, then if you need to take some out of savings to pay that off before interest kicks in, do that. Without having to make payments on the first three cards, you may be able to pay off 4 sooner than you think. Good luck!

I'd pay off 1, 2, and 3 and put the rest in savings. Since card 4 is 0% interest, you may as well put the money somewhere where it will earn some interest and give you a cushion. Keep paying off card 4 and right before the 0% interest goes away, use money from savings to pay it the rest of the way off.

These are both good ideas. I was leaning towards putting it into savings and going full-tilt-boogie on CC4 but hadn't thought about using some from savings just before the 0% runs out. Thanks!

First off, I'm sorry for the loss of your mom and grandmother. Two very important women in your life. Not knowing the extent of your inheritance makes it tough to comment. I think you should wait to see how much it is, and then break it down from there. I do think since they didn't get to meet your dd you should invest some of it for her future. Good luck.

I had thought about putting some asside for DD, but I think the best gift I can give her is to have us on secure financial footing. Plus with no CC debt we'll be able to save up for her college fund, no problem. In the long run this will benifit her greatly, just in a round-about sort of way.
 
I'd pay off 1, 2, and 3 and put the rest in savings. Since card 4 is 0% interest, you may as well put the money somewhere where it will earn some interest and give you a cushion. Keep paying off card 4 and right before the 0% interest goes away, use money from savings to pay it the rest of the way off.

Not much interest to be earned these days in a bank. I'd pay it off, save the rest and get the debt monkey off your back.
 
Pay off CC 1,2 & 3; add up the payments that you were making to those cards and add that to the monthly payments for CC4 and put the rest of inheritance in the bank.

This way you'll have the security of knowing you have some savings for emergencies and CC 4 is on its way to being paid off much sooner than you had planned without having to make any changes to your monthly budget.
 
I'm so sorry for your losses. First, as you pointed out, there are no wrong answers here with what you are considering. But I would pay the CCs all off! As you pointed out, you can ramp up savings quickly after that without your monthly cc payment and quite frankly, even with a 0%, unless you are putting the money aside now and WILL.NOT.TOUCH.IT, it doesn't make sense. Let's face it -- emergencies, trips and other needs and wants come up and tend to take that money. We all say we will pay it off and other things come up (see my consolidated student loans). Been there and done that. So bite the bullet, take the chance to be free of CC debt and go on from there. GL!
 
Not much interest to be earned these days in a bank. I'd pay it off, save the rest and get the debt monkey off your back.


I agree 100% with this.

I have to ask, you say you weren't comfortable asking how much you were getting? Why not? I think we all need to get way more comfortable talking about money, quantity of money, all general aspects of money. It really shouldn't be an awkward thing to talk about.
 
There probably isnt' a "wrong" answer to this but I wanted to get a few outside opinions. DH says it's my money and to do what I want with it so it's 100% up to me.

My grandmother died last September, and because my mother died in '07, my mother's share now goes to my brothers and I (to all of our surprise, I might add!). I'm not sure of the amount yet, all I know from my uncle is that the lawyer will be cutting the check today and that I will be "very very surprised" with it (in a good way, Uncle was very upbeat!). I didn't feel comfortable asking "how much?" but knowing a bit about what my grandmother was likely worth at her passing, I have a fair idea of the amount.

It will likely be enough to cover what we owe in CC debt. We have been on a plan to pay it down the past few years and have just recently ramped up our efforts, had this not happened we'd have been CC debt free in about 2 years. We don't have much in savings however, which has always worried me. Everytime we get a few $$$ in savings something comes along and wipes it out. We never add to our debt but can't seem to make a big dent in it or keep a decent amount in savings either.

So, our CC debt is spred over 4 credit cards. CC's 1, 2, and 3 have interest of about 6%, the 4th CC is 0% until March '13 and then it goest to 12%.

CC's 1 and 2 have very low balances, just 3k between them and I know I'll pay them off no mater what. CC 3 has a much higher balance and I figure I'll pay that off as well.

That will leave CC 4. I will likely have enough from the inheritance to pay that off in full too (or close to it), but will - unless I'm getting WAY more than I think I am - leave little to nothing left to put into savings. But, with all 4 CC's out of the way I'd be able to ramp up savings and have a decent amount in the bank by the end of the year (baring unforseen expenses).

So, should I pay off CC 4 and be done with it, or hang on to the money for a rainy day and concentrate on paying off CC 4 using our monthly income? We likely would not be able to pay it off before the 0% interest expires but we'd knock it down a fair bit. Total time to pay off CC 4 would be about 10-12 months.

Or are there other ways to work this that I'm not thinking of?

:upsidedow And this being the DIS budget board, I know I'll get a few "you need to reign in your spending so you don't rack up CC debt again". Already done, and done years ago. Our issue isn't day-to-day spending anyway, we pay off the CC we use for monthly spending (groceries, gas, etc) every month and our expenses are not out of the ordinary (mostly needs and not many wants). The CC debt was from our wedding, home repairs that couldn't wait, replacing DH's truck engine (I'd have junked the thing but it wasn't up to me) and a few other large purchases that could not be put off for various reasons. With the CC's off our back and money in the bank, we should not need to have CC debt ever again, and amen to that!

All of this said, I'd much rather have my grandmother and mother alive and well. They passed away before getting to meet my precious little girl! Or at the very least Grandma should have enjoyed her money more. But that's not how it worked out. :sad1:

ETA: Just ran the numbers and unless something unexpected popped up, we can pay off CC 4 before the 0% off expires. So we would not have to touch anything we saved from the inheritance.

I would pay off CCs 1, 2 and 3 and then put the remainder into the EF. Pay as much as you can on CC4 until February and then pay off CC4 with the inheritance or from your income but do not wait until March as they could try the payment was a minute too late and tack on all that interest.
 
I agree 100% with this.

I have to ask, you say you weren't comfortable asking how much you were getting? Why not? I think we all need to get way more comfortable talking about money, quantity of money, all general aspects of money. It really shouldn't be an awkward thing to talk about.

I couldn't think of a way to ask without it sounding like I hit the lotto, although my uncle is a great guy and likely wouldn't take it that way. But he was in a rush as he had a repair man at the door he needed to deal with and I was so flustered by the whole thing I just never worked it into the conversation! :blush: My brother called me later that night and he couldn't think of a way to ask either (he was hoping I knew), so it wasn't just me!

Besides I'll know by the end of the week, I assume it will be mailed today and the post office should have it here either tomorrow or Thursday.

You're right, it shouldn't be awkward though!
 
I couldn't think of a way to ask without it sounding like I hit the lotto, although my uncle is a great guy and likely wouldn't take it that way. But he was in a rush as he had a repair man at the door he needed to deal with and I was so flustered by the whole thing I just never worked it into the conversation! :blush: My brother called me later that night and he couldn't think of a way to ask either (he was hoping I knew), so it wasn't just me!

Besides I'll know by the end of the week, I assume it will be mailed today and the post office should have it here either tomorrow or Thursday.

You're right, it shouldn't be awkward though!

Ah yes, I totally understand the whole flustered situation. LOL
Sounds like you've put some good thoughts into how to best use your windfall. Good luck with your plans!
 
Pay off CC 1,2 & 3; add up the payments that you were making to those cards and add that to the monthly payments for CC4 and put the rest of inheritance in the bank.

This way you'll have the security of knowing you have some savings for emergencies and CC 4 is on its way to being paid off much sooner than you had planned without having to make any changes to your monthly budget.

That was what I was going to suggest as well. After you pay off the credit cards, "pay yourself" back. If you have an account like ING, you can set up automatic payments to that account. We do that now with any raises my husband gets. It's done automatically so we don't even miss the money.

I too am sorry for your loss.
 
Thanks everyone!

While I can't make a true plan of action until I know the exact numbers I'm dealing with, I've decided to pay off CCs 1, 2, and 3, put the remaining amount in savings and then pay off CC 4 out of our usual monthly budget, getting it done by the time the 0% offer expires. If I need to take a little out of savings to make that happen towards the end of the financing offer I will. After that I'll set up a certain amount of $ to go into our ING account every month on my payday (I was one step ahead of you Swimalie, but thanks for the suggestion).

Obviously if the amount is less/more than I think it is, I'll adjust accordingly!

It's going to be an amazing feeling! After the CC debt is gone all we'll have left is a car payment (it's at 3% so I'm in no hurry to pay it off, I'd rather build savings) and a mortgage. Once our liquid savings are at about 1 years worth of expenses we'll look into starting a Roth IRA (already have a healthy 401k) and also savings for DD's college. This is going to really put us ahead of the game!
 
Don't forget to make sure you know exactly what, if any, taxes you may owe. Hopefully it was taken out of the estate but just be certain. Don't want any surprises next April.
 
I'm sorry for your losses. I was never very close with any of my grandparents because I grew up across the country from them, but I have always been very close with my mother (and father) and I can't imagine losing either of them. My thoughts are with you.

In response to your question, no matter how much money you end up receiving, I would choose to pay off all of the credit cards. You can likely wipe them all out at once and go ahead and save whatever money you were paying toward them monthly and put that into your savings each month. Something always comes up, I totally know how that is, but it feels so nice not having credit card debt and even if you have to dip into your savings, at least you can afford it outright. The other option is to pay of CC 1-3, and pay off 4 in monthly installments before the 0% ends...but ONLY IF you can trust yourself enough to absolutely make sure you can pay it off completely before then. It can be risky if "something comes up" as you know. My husband and I have done the interest-free thing before and it has worked well for us because my husband calculates exactly how much every month we need to pay, etc but you do have to be very responsible and diligent. Either of those choices would probably work fine for you, whichever you are more comfortable with. Would you rather still pay on #4 knowing you have the cash in savings to pay it off, or would you rather just have everything over and done with and start saving?
 
I think I'd pay off 1, 2, and 3, and put the rest of the money in savings. Pay as much as you can on 4 until the 0% runs out, then if you need to take some out of savings to pay that off before interest kicks in, do that. Without having to make payments on the first three cards, you may be able to pay off 4 sooner than you think. Good luck!

This is what I would do as well.
 
why would you not pay them all off?

If one is at 0% interest, there is no reason to hurry to pay it off. The bank is giving her an interest free loan essentially. It makes more sense to put that money in the bank, earn interest (every dollar counts) and pay it off right before the promotion ends. Let's say we're talking $10,000 and she can earn 0.5% investing it. That is about $50 she doesn't have today.
 
I'd pay it all off (why pour out interest to something when you don't get any interest on savings?) and then when paid off set up an aggressive plan for saving for rainy day/retirement/fun stuff/future purchases so all scenarios have a plan. We had a disastrous business go south many years ago that wiped us out, and some inheritances really helped us get back on a good path, so take this gift, say thanks to your Grandma, and make the best use of it to change your life for the better. Best of luck :)
 














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