msjprincess
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Yes. I think I've seen more warnings and locked threads in the last 2 weeks than I've seen in all the time I have been posting here. I've seen a few posts that were pretty mild get locked.
It does seem that there is a different attitude of the moderation lately. If the owner wants a different vibe, then what can we do? It's their choice, of course; I would never argue against that.
But, I will say that it's frustrating to those who have been here a while to suddenly get talked down to for posting the way we always have...one mod called the Dis a "sandbox" as if we're children. I honestly find that insulting, and I if that is seriously how this board is going, I can't say that I'll stick around.
Thanks for putting it this way--I do think that is what is really bugging me most. Threads that would have gone on with no issue at all for the years I have been on the DIS are now suddenly invoking these condescending little comments from moderators I have never seen and getting locked or deleted.But, I will say that it's frustrating to those who have been here a while to suddenly get talked down to for posting the way we always have...one mod called the Dis a "sandbox" as if we're children. I honestly find that insulting, and I if that is seriously how this board is going, I can't say that I'll stick around.
It's hard to know what is or is not acceptable: We can go on for dozens of pages disagreeing in a reasonable manner about the McKinney Texas situation with no issues, but if people disagree in a reasonable way with an OP about a parenting issue or if groceries can be legitimately returned, then that is not OK? Maybe because that is more personal? But if we are not allowed to disagree with someone's stance and explain why, then why are people allowed to start threads asking for opinions about their stance? It doesn't make a lot of sense.
I think "boring" is the word you're looking for.Compared to the threads I remember reading from 2010 or 2011 the threads these days are unbelievably nice and mellow in nature.
I've noticed this also.I've never been one to notice who the mods are and what they will or won't allow, and even I have noticed that there is a new sheriff in town with a quick finger on the "lock thread" button.
I wonder if people are complaining they're being "picked on" and mods are looking at those threads already biased. And, instead of calling out individual posters (for not following board guidelines), they're shutting down entire threads (throwing the baby out with the bath water). I'm guessing the McKinney thread hasn't had any posters complaining.It's hard to know what is or is not acceptable: We can go on for dozens of pages disagreeing in a reasonable manner about the McKinney Texas situation with no issues, but if people disagree in a reasonable way with an OP about a parenting issue or if groceries can be legitimately returned, then that is not OK?
Yea, deleting that one was a mistake IMO. I could understand locking it, but the things that had been posted should have been kept.Last night a series of very disturbing trip reports were deleted
I wouldn't believe everything you read on the internet. And if I'm thinking about the same thing you're talking about, I believe all that happened many years ago.t's been reported on other forums that many members have been completely banned from the site without apparent cause or any explanation.
Last night a series of very disturbing trip reports were deleted
I just have to say- Dis Meets and Lonely people sometimes have results you would not imagine.
I wonder if people are complaining they're being "picked on" and mods are looking at those threads already biased.
Yes!!!Totally agree with this. Those of us who have been around a while know who "those" posters are and we know their history. They post the same type of questions or topics over and over, and then get mad when no one tells them what they were hoping to hear. We get called stalkers for mentioning their previous posts, and bullies for telling them the truth instead of saying what they want to hear. I suspect they complain to the moderators and then the moderators close the thread or delete it.
I wouldn't believe everything you read on the internet. And if I'm thinking about the same thing you're talking about, I believe all that happened many years ago.