lisaviolet
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I've thought of Jeff all day.
How is he doing Erika? Where is it - forehead?
I've thought of Jeff all day.

So tonight it's the condensed version. Here goes.Nancy - police story - are we getting it?![]()

Ronda- I bet that book is really good. I saw a story on ?? tv somewhere about the real-life family, etc. Such a wonderful thing they did!
Erika - glad the party went well, and that Jeff is improving. Is he slated to be state-side for a while?
So, my story. I had the whole crazy tale typed out last night but the dang system updates messed me up.So tonight it's the condensed version. Here goes.
We were supposed to be going to 2 events last night. First was a 4H awards dinner. The plan was to leave there, stop at home super quick to drop off the kids, "regroup" and head back out again. Easy.
Not so much. We left the dinner and headed home (in a snow storm) as planned- got there around 8:30 which was perfect. We were home maybe 5 minutes when an unfamiliar car pulled into our driveway. um, ok? Could be anyone really.....but no one seemed to be coming to the door....this was a bit strange, so Stephen went out into the garage (which we had left wide open since we were headed right out again). A few minutes later he stuck his head in the door and called for me to come out. This woman, whom neither of us knew, was headed right on into my house. With pizza. Two of them actually. She had what I would describe as a *glazed* look in her eyes. Definitely out there somewhere. We tried to ask her where she was looking for, whose house she was headed to....she really didn't say much. Just looked annoyed with us for giving her a hard time about going in. She finally did give me a name that she was looking for (not me...nor any of my neighbors for that matter). No address, no nothing, no words. Just....dazed confusion. She headed back to her car and was going to drive away (in the snow storm) - Something was definitely not right. She wasn't stumbling/staggering/slurring like she was drunk, but....really. She was not.there. It was so unsettling that I decided to call the police. I would rather have them check out something that turned out to be nothing, than not call and have someone get hurt. So 911 it was as she tried to leave the driveway. I gave them the license plate, vehicle description & direction of travel. A few minutes later an officer showed up to talk to us - we gave him the whole WIERD story (which involves her intrigue with my cat as well...) He wanted to know if we wanted to file a complaint (breach of peace, tresspassing)- nope. We just want everyone to be safe, and frankly we don't feel she is. While he was here, we heard on his radio that they located the car and we heard the address. So, after the officer left we looked up the address, and the name that she had told me that she was going to. She was *closer* to the right place this time, but not quite there! I have no idea what her deal was, or whether or not she's in any kind of trouble, but after all that mess, we just decided to stay home.
The end.
With one finger?![]()
(pretending that's a *giving you a raspberry* smile)
Here they close at 6:00. We squeeked inte American Eagle at 5:59 and she found one - $40! for a stupid shirt that I'm telling you now, she will never.wear.ever. other than these 5-6 events in the next 2 weeks. This is what happens when you wait until the very last second to look for the danged shirt.
My plan is to do a fair amount of on-line shopping. Look out Amazon, here I come 
Seriously, I would have done the same thing. That is super creepy and definitely not safe.
Such a great way to start my week!Kelly and I changed his dressing last night (have I mentioned that about Kel? Don't think so. She is so into anything medical. Anyone in the family who ever needs even a band-aid, she is ON IT. She is determined to be a doctor when she grows up and I really hope she does. She is so well suited to it).
Jeff went to work today, so that is good. Kelly and I changed his dressing
Go Kelly!
(which means I just sit and play on my iPhone pretending that I am e-mailing and working when really I am reading fanfic.)

We made breakfast burritos this weekend and froze a bunch so it'll be easier for me to grab something while running out the door in the morning. Red green and yellow bell peppers, potatoes, egg whites (my dad had a FIT about that lol), turkey sausage, and mine were made with corn tortillas rather than flour, and tomatoes, since my dad can't have them. Ate a clementine with it (trying to wean myself off the oj, aren't yall proud of me?!) and a bottle of water. For lunch, sauteed veggies with brown rice. Feeling good!!!! Got a good amount of exercise Saturday night walking around looking at the streets of Denver while waiting for the parade of lights. My knees are really giving me trouble in the cold though...wondering....is 24 too young for arthritis lol...
Her 14 year old daughter was practicing driving in a parking lot down in Florida, and hit the gas instead of the brake on accident...flipped the car into a lake and Ashley's sister drowned.
Ashley's not talking about it much (to be expected) so I don't know how her sister's daughter is doing, but know that he must have made it since they didn't say much about her. Please keep her and that family in your prayers/thoughts. I can't imagine having to deal with that kind of tragedy right before Christmas...brings my December death anniversaries to four now... (ETA: it was the sister's daughter driving. Three kids were in the car, the three year old and 14 year old are still in ICU, the 14 year old does not look like she will make it.)
). Feel free to laugh at chick who has now spent the majority of her adult life (10 years now) in the south... Okay, I have a fashion question for the fashionistas among us (dressy fleece need not apply!!). Feel free to laugh at chick who has now spent the majority of her adult life (10 years now) in the south...
I have my trip up north for a holiday party this week. I think I am okay with the dinner/dance, which is a business formal dress code, as I have a black velvet "suit" that I can wear. Long black skirt with a non-structured jacket (no buttons), and I am hopeful as to finding a shiny-ish red shell to go with it.
My problems lie in two places... one is shoes, and the other is for the day on Friday.
Shoes. I live in NC, right? It's WARM here. So, most of my shoes are open-toe, or really designed for what y'all up north would consider spring/summer/fall. The low there on Fri night is supposed to be upper teens/low 20s. What does one wear for such things? Hose? Heeled short boots?
Tall heeled boots would work.
I don't subscribe to tights with open toes but the fashion mags do. Depends on how cutting edge you want to be.
A full heel (no open toe), you could wear black tights. I say tights because it seems only older women wear sheer hose these days. It's bare legged which is perfectly acceptable year round but of course cold, or tights.
Two, Friday. Agenda is corporate meetings in the morning, "festive" employee lunch off-site, and then meet n greets with the parent company staff in the afternoon. Again, COLD (high of 29), and likely some walking around cold streets, to and from lunch site at the very least.
I own NOTHING that qualifies as business, or even business casual attire for cold climates. I have a couple of sweaters and a trench/rain coat. I will have to find my gloves and scarf, of course, and I have a full-length wool dress coat somewhere that is likely woefully out of style.
Tips? I need to go shopping... was considering a lightweight turtleneck sweater and jacket combo??


Kat--being the one of the resident Northerners, I could totally tell you what to wear. BUT, seeing as how my opinion is not valued around here...![]()

Hmmm, this is hard. Don't want to look too casual. Do you have a black, knee length polyester skirt that would work with a sweater? You could pair with black tights or even wool tights and flats. Black slacks? Black slacks with a heel or flats would be best. Tights or trouser socks with pants.
Just my opinion.

done with campus until September! Wowza!
I had hoped to get one yesterday, but crap happens, and we ran out of time. wah.