I'm thankful, but either angry or sympathetic and I'm not sure which

[aahmom1]

(Back in May, his passenger door got dented. He claimed it was because a car hit it in the parking lot. My dad and I couldn't figure out how a car could produce that kind of dent while leaving that kind of residue, so my dad went investigating and found that there was red paint on the entry edge of his old garage at the apartment where he more likely tried to enter the garage and didn't know the dimensions of his car and so caused his own dent but was too ashamed to admit to me. He never has fessed up to that one to me, though he did acknowledge that my dad was right when my dad confronted him)

I'm sorry, from this it sounded like you and your Dad went investigating. Nonetheless, your Dad shouldn't really be investigating your husband, he's an adult.

 

[EROS]

RAJAH, I just think that it's bad form for you to be accusing your husband on the DIS of being a LIAR; he's certainly not in a position here to defend himself, and I really don't think that it's fair to him to be throwing out accusations which are supposition.

I'm just thankful along with you that he wasn't hurt. You need to address some of the TRUST issues which you've commented upon, but I'd urge you to do that in the privacy of your marriage rather than here. JMHO......... .......

 

[dmfuru]

Your husband may be an adult, but he is behaving like a bad teenager. Adults do not fishtail their cars on public roads.

I suppose the future post will be "My DH just ran over a kid walking in an intersection."

 

[Serena]

Here's my .02.
I agree with several people here. Rajah, he is an adult. You cannot control the way he drives. It's up to him.
You do sound like you are talking about your son, instead of your husband. And he sounds like he's acting like he's a teenage boy and you're his mom that he doesn't dare tell the truth too.
You can leave him because he's a bad driver if you want to, that's your choice.
Like it's his choice to drive the car, and lie to you about how the accident happened, if in fact he did.

You two have bigger problems than his driving habits. It's trust and control.
Best wishes for you both.