Andtototoo
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Nov 23, 2010
What is your definition of dumping? Dumping to me is when one party unilaterally decides the relationship is over when the other person would have continued on. If you decide the relationship is over, period, due to a situation over which the other person has no control, you've dumped them.It wouldn't have been "dumping" the guy, in my case. We would have talked about it, he'd know what I wanted in life, in a marriage, children, everything. And if we weren't a match in one of the big ways, we'd break up decently and maturely, no "dumping" involved.
Moreover, if you break up with someone because they are infertile, you are striking at a very deep and emotional core, a place of already deep hurt and you might not get a nice "decent" break up.