BlueFairy: Hi

One of my pet peeves when I go on vacation is not knowing where the locals go, whether it be restaurants, beaches, shopping, etc. So many people come to the Cape and end up on the southside beaches because that is where 80% of the hotels and other businesses are. The beaches from Harwich to Hyannis (mid-Cape area and hugely overpopulated in the summer) can be quite nasty IMHO. Of course, if you don't know beaches then you might be impressed. I think they are dirty and over crowded.
The bay side beaches on the other hand are gorgeous and when the tide is out, you have miles of beach to spread out on

In Brewster, the beaches are rarely crowded because you have to go to town hall to buy a sticker vs. a booth at the parking lot where you can pay to enter for the day. They are called the "Brewster flats" and you can enjoy watching (or doing yourself but with no license you cannot keep) people dig sea clams and other shellfish.
In Dennis (the beaches sell out in July and August early mornings, sometimes before 9:30 am) there are several beaches that have swings and snack bars. At high tide, they tend to be very crowded but that only lasts two hours or so before you can start to spread out... Fishing off the jetties can get you a nice Blue Fish or Bass for your grill and doesn't require a license but does come with size restrictions so check that out. Dennis also has two off-road beaches for 4X4 and that is the way to do the beach if you can! Bring your grill and your cooler and spend the day.
Other great beaches (and ones with waves sometimes large enough for surfing) are on the Lower Cape from Chatham to Ptown. When I want to relax on the beach (and not worry about kids in the water) I go to Dennis or Brewster but we do go to the other beaches a few times each summer. Not so relaxing...I stand by the water a majority of the time just in case
As for Route 28, I have one thing to say: Honky Tonk Tourist Trap

And the traffic is a nightmare in the summer. I'd be hard pressed to come up with more than a few restaurants worth going to Route 28 and not one shop until you get into the Harwichport area. Dennisport on Route 6a is a dump as is most of Yarmouth.
If you are planning to come to the Cape, PM me and I'll stop boring everyone on the DIS
