I Never Trust A Man That...

[Costumesaremylife]

Never trust anyone who is rude to waitstaff or animals.

 

[Elmo9607]

I never trust a man I meet online

I never trust a man who says they've changed

I never trust a man who says 'trust me'

I never trust a man who texts 'Hey what's up' at 2:44 am

I never trust a man who asks his friends if he can borrow money

 

[bettymae1121]

I never trust a man I meet online

I never trust a man who says they've changed

I never trust a man who says 'trust me'

I never trust a man who texts 'Hey what's up' at 2:44 am

I never trust a man who asks his friends if he can borrow money

Oh I don't know, I met my husband online and he's pretty trust worthy!

 

[Elmo9607]

Oh I don't know, I met my husband online and he's pretty trust worthy!

Haha, I guess i should have put a disclaimer...ymmv! I've had nothing but horrible luck with the men Ive met online.

 

[goofyintoronto]

In this case I think he already knows "what's up" and is wondering what you will do about it. You can trust that!

LMAO. No kidding. How do you even respond to a text like that!?

 

[Andtototoo]

Anyone (man or woman) who gets into a relationship with anyone who has a history of cheating or a track record of poor decisions is just an idiot of monumental proportion. It isn't that hard to read people and figure out their character before you dive into a serious relationship with them.

Agreed.

Also... When she confessed to me -- mid-pregnancy when her dh left her for the new(er) girlfriend -- that she'd not only been the other woman, but had ALSO betrayed her best friend, I ended our relationship. After all, if she'd had no compunction about cheating with her best friend's husband while she was pregnant, there was no reason for me to trust her around my marriage either. As Maya Angelou says, when someone shows you who they are, believe them.

 

[Heidict]

Anyone (man or woman) who gets into a relationship with anyone who has a history of cheating or a track record of poor decisions is just an idiot of monumental proportion. It isn't that hard to read people and figure out their character before you dive into a serious relationship with them.

I totally agree with you. I just can't fathom how stupid a person has to be to think that he won't cheat on them. Not to mention the low self esteem and desperation it takes to sleep with a married man (or woman). Just disgusts me.

 

[TifffanyD]

I never trust a man who hangs out by the ladies bathroom - just waiting to intercept

 

[Andtototoo]

I totally agree with you. I just can't fathom how stupid a person has to be to think that he won't cheat on them. Not to mention the low self esteem and desperation it takes to sleep with a married man (or woman). Just disgusts me.

Actually the people I know who have helped a married person commit adultery seldom had low self esteem. On the contrary, they were often arrogant, narcissistic and entitled. They saw, they wanted, they went after what they wanted. That, IMO, is one reason why they have no guilt and why they're so shocked when the other person eventually cheats on them. They were special, you see, so special the person was willing to break up their marriage and leave children behind. So it's unfathomable that the SO would ever stray from THEM. Because they're special.

 

[lizabu]

Actually the people I know who have helped a married person commit adultery seldom had low self esteem. On the contrary, they were often arrogant, narcissistic and entitled. They saw, they wanted, they went after what they wanted. That, IMO, is one reason why they have no guilt and why they're so shocked when the other person eventually cheats on them. They were special, you see, so special the person was willing to break up their marriage and leave children behind. So it's unfathomable that the SO would ever stray from THEM. Because they're special.

I think on the inside these people have low self esteem. They may put on a good show but if they really felt so good about themselves they would know that they deserve a partner all to themselves. Not another person's mate.

 

[dakcp2001]

Never trust anyone who is rude to waitstaff or animals.

This! I also do not trust anyone who leaves a crappy tip.

 

[Minnesota!]

Agreed.

Also... When she confessed to me -- mid-pregnancy when her dh left her for the new(er) girlfriend -- that she'd not only been the other woman, but had ALSO betrayed her best friend, I ended our relationship. After all, if she'd had no compunction about cheating with her best friend's husband while she was pregnant, there was no reason for me to trust her around my marriage either. As Maya Angelou says, when someone shows you who they are, believe them.

I have a new favorite word! That's fun to say!!!!

BTW - I love that Maya Angelou quote...use it often!

 

[Disney Doll]

Never trust a man that cheats on his wife, even if you are the one he is cheating with. I have a friend that was the "other woman" while the guy was cheating on his wife. BUT, she was just positive that he was only cheating on his wife because his wife was horrible. So, the guy divorces his wife, and marries my friend. Guess what happens, yup, he cheats on my friend and they are now divorced and he is married to the woman he was cheating with. Gee, I wonder how that marriage will go.

I have often wondered why a woman would involve herself with a man who has proven that he is capable of cheating on his spouse.

Most of the men I know or have known in my life (at least the important ones) have been good men, so in general, I trust men. Having almost been burned once, before I was married, by a man who was engaged but neglected to tell me (thank God I found out while we were still in the flirtation stage and oh how fun it was when he saw his fiancee and I working together on her nursing unit one day!!!!) I'll admit that I was a bit more careful about finding out someone's marital/engaged status before dating them back in my single days. I had to get the "network" working just a little harder!!!

 

[lovemygoofy]

Don't trust a man that can't realize nothing below my neck can make eye contact or talk

 

[LuvsDragonflies]

Never trust a man who doesn't trust you for no good reason. There's a reason he doesn't trust you and it's because he, himself, is untrustworthy.

 

[Teresa Pitman]

I never trust a man who doesn't like dogs.

TP

 

[N&B'smom]

I never trust a man (or woman) that can't make eye contact.

 

[Teresa Pitman]

I never trust a man (or woman) that can't make eye contact.

The problem with that is that some cultures (for example, some First Nations tribes) believe that looking someone in the eye is rude and so they avoid making eye contact, even though they may be perfectly trustworthy.

TP

 

[DVCJones]

Never trust a man who thinks he is right ALL the time!!! No one can be right all the time.

I think it shows he has a HUGE ego...and that leads to many of the already mentioned.

 

[disneychic2]

This thread reminds me of the old saying "Never trust a man with a pinky ring."

That was the first thing that came to my mind!