I need some serious help.

He hasn't "asked me out." We mutually agreed that we wanted to be more than just friends, because we really really like each other. The only time he has ever asked me to go somewhere with him was just yesterday. He wanted to take me to his cousin's Halloween party so I told that I wish I could go but I can't. Hence how he knows I can't do anything because I am in trouble.
So the only thing I "lied" about was texting him.
Wait, what?!? You lied to your parents about his text or to him? I'm confused. And why would you lie?
 
I don't know, I couldn't very well ask permission at that point seeing as how I was sneaking around texting him.
You missed this part of my post:
He wanted to take me to his cousin's Halloween party so I told that I wish I could go but I can't. Hence how he knows I can't do anything because I am in trouble.

so then
 
by betraying your parents for starters. giving up everything for someone you don't will be there in 6 months

I betrayed their trust like you betrayed your mother's by not inviting her to your wedding.
Yet she is still there for you every day of you life, and you have your wife by your side.
 

I betrayed their trust like you betrayed your mother's by not inviting her to your wedding.
Yet she is still there for you every day of you life, and you have your wife by your side.
but again at 18 and out on your own what can anyone say heck your not 18 and you are already doing things your parents don't want you to do
 
I hope your family can meet him, so this can be resolved. It would be really hard for me if I knew that my parents couldn't trust me. I am assuming thats why you're in trouble.

GL with all of this!
 
I lied to my parents by texting him behind his back. I told him I am in trouble and can't do anything with him.
but you did not tell him why you are in trouble and what if you weren't in trouble what if you did not get caught yet then what would you have told him
 
We could play the what if game all day long. I would have had to tell him.
Either way I would have had to cross that bridge.

What if my parents let me have the one thing I want more than This Is It, New Moon, meeting the cast, obviously more than my make up and my straightner?
 
What if my parents let me have the one thing I want more than This Is It, New Moon, meeting the cast, obviously more than my make up and my straightner?

you sound like rachel wanting a puppy dog if you wanted it that bad you would have handled it the right way
 
Sure because I found someone who I care about.

But I wasn't happy having to hide it and feeling sick with guilt.
 
I have two thoughts of this thread.

LOSE. You will LOSE him.
Sluts are loose :P

ADVICE. Advise, is a verb. To advise.
 
We could play the what if game all day long. I would have had to tell him.
Either way I would have had to cross that bridge.

What if my parents let me have the one thing I want more than This Is It, New Moon, meeting the cast, obviously more than my make up and my straightner?

Your comparing your love for this boy to movies, makeup and a hair straightener? Seriously?

And here's something else to consider: when you turn 18, your parents can legally kick you out of the house. Will your boyfriend be there to help you? You may be 18 and legally an adult, but with that comes other responsibilities I don't think you're ready to handle.
 
We could play the what if game all day long. I would have had to tell him.
Either way I would have had to cross that bridge.

What if my parents let me have the one thing I want more than This Is It, New Moon, meeting the cast, obviously more than my make up and my straightner?

how can you compare any of those things to this guy that you supposedly cannot wake up without?

honestly, if i were your parents, i'd be disturbed by how melodramatic you're being.
 


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