I just want to crawl in a hole.

[tkyes]

*sigh*

I can't talk about this outloud - it's too hard. I know I can talk to you guys though.

DH and I just suffered our 2nd miscarriage in 4 months.

I'm at the "it's not fair" and "why us?" stage right now.

You know what? It isn't fair. It's a horrible thing to go through. I just want to scream and cry and throw a good old-fashioned hissy fit.

I know this will pass, I'll feel better eventually. We'll try again when we can and God willing, we will have a beautiful baby someday.

I know this isn't the end of the world and that others are going through far worse things than this. We have eachother and we have our family and our health.

Thank you for letting me vent. Please, if you can spare prayers, good thoughts, well wishes, pixie dust, whatever you believe in, I could really use them right now.


Tamie

 

[DoeWDW]

Tamie, I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. I'll keep you in my prayers. I'm sending a gentle your way.

 

[dvcfamily41801]

Tamie,
I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you. I hope everything is okay

 

[tlgoblue]

I'm so sorry Tamie! I wish I had some peace to give you. Stay close to DH. You can get through this together.

Keep the Faith!
Tracy

 

[helenabear]

Tamie, I am so very very sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you both

 

[JC2]

Tamie, I am sorry. I'm praying for peace and strength for you and your husband. {hugs}

 

[Hillbeans]

I just wanted to send *hugs* your way.

I had a miscarriage last October at 8 weeks. I had been bleeding quite a bit, but just knew something was wrong because it felt very different from my first pregnancy. The month before, I think I miscarried at about 2 weeks. My mom passed away and I was under a tremendous amount of stress. I think I tried again so soon to have another baby to replace the loss of my mom.

I do have a sweet DS 3 who is the light of my life. I'm not ready to try again, but my MIL pesters me non-stop.

People told me that things happen for a reason, and I have to believe that. There was probably something wrong, and the body knows sometimes when a pregnancy isn't going the right way.

Keep your chin up and I wish you the best of luck. PM me anytime if you need to chat.

-Hillary

 

[Scratch42]

I know that there is nothing that I can say that will make it better but sending you a great big bear






Scratch

 

[CamColt]

Oh I am so sorry to hear that!!!!
You are right, it isnt fair!
Loads of prayers & Pixie Dust on the way!!!!

 

[SeaSpray]

So very sorry to hear this

 

[Miss Jasmine]

Awhhh Tammie, I am so sorry for your losses. I say go ahead throw the hissy fit, it could make you feel better. And then work from there. You are right, it isn't fair, especially since you are so kind and warm-hearted and do so much for others.

 

[Rajah]

I'm so sorry.

 

[lacool]

{{{hugs}}}. prayers, and pixie dust for you.

 

[Toby'sFriend]

oh that is so sad.
You're right, it's not fair at all.

Take care of yourself.

 

[preshi]

I'm so sorry. Have your Dr. check your Progestrone levels next time. Thats what was causing my miscarriages.

 

[Blondie]

I'm sorry Tamie.

 

[Lorix2]

Tamie - i'm so sorry, I know it hurts. Your outlook is positive and the way I've dealt with it is knowing that these times were just not right and these babies probably would have been too ill to have a healthy life.

I know this doesn't make the hurt go away.....but you are not alone and it will happen for you, keep the faith and take care of yourself.

 

[cinmell]

I am so sorry.

 

[ead79]

Tamie, I am so sorry for your losses. My prayers are with you and your DH as you mourn. {{{HUGS}}} It's perfectly fine if you need to throw a fit--it can really help sometimes.

 

[CEDmom]

I'm so sorry . DH and I went through a lot of heartache before DD came into our lives so I have an idea of what you're going through. Just know you're not alone and it's ok to feel all that you're feeling. Although the DIS is a very supportive group when I was in your same situation I found support on Parent Soup.