I Hate This Guy!

[Lovela]

Thank you Stitchsfanjr for introducing this place to me. So...I need help with this guy. He works in my Mum's shop. His a worker of course. But he annoys me so much! . I use to talk to him in a fine way but now he gets me mad so I ignore him. If he comes to my Mum's office when I'm there. I try to avoid him. I know this is dumb and all. I told my Parent's and every adult I know but they keep telling me that I have a crush on this lame guy. Trust me being half American, Half English is hard! Today he gave me a ' compliment ' by saying that my hair was pretty! BUT IT WAS NOT! HE WAS JUST POINTING OUT THAT ITS UGLY. COME ON, I'M UGLY. Why does he have to disturb me. No, he does not do bad stuff to me but he keeps on saying stupid stuff. I tried to talk to him but I end up saying thing's like: "Stay away from me you freak!" How do I conquer my fears and talk this lame-o dude. His just so annoying.

Lovela

 

[Master Gracy]

my honest answer is, I dont know.
I dont know why you are putting yourself down,
I dont know why he annoys you by giving you compliments
I really dont know

 

[::Snow_White::]

Just a question, but how is saying "Your hair is pretty" mean "Your hair is ugly" ? And I'm not exactly sure how he annoys you. Just talk to him, and if you feel the urge to call him a freak...I guess just don't. I can't really help you, but Good Luck with that.

 

[lalastephanie]

Who knows, He might like you.Sometimes guys don't exactly know how to act around a girl they like and their just mean to them because thats all they know.Theres a boy at my private school thats really mean to everyone.My friend said the year before i came there he was really mean to her but he liked her and thats the only way he really knew how to flirt n stuff and he did the same thing to me the first year I came there.Just try talking to him and maybe try telling him that hes hurting your feels n stuff?If you haven't told him that he might not know.

 

[MuNkY]

Wow.

I'm telling you right now, as a guy, when he tells you your hair is pretty, he means it. Just because YOU think it's ugly doesn't mean so does the rest of the world and they're just taunting you by giving you compliments about it. I can't tell you how many times with Shelby I've had where she looked great, but she didn't think so. I dunno, maybe it's just a female thing.

But quite honestly, I think this guy annoy's you, because you make him annoy you. It sounds like he can't win anything with you, because you simply don't let him. Fine example is the hair thingy. You have it cemented in your mind that he isn't cool, and you don't want anything to do with him, which I personally think is shallow.

And I'm telling you right now you being half American half English has nothing to do with it.

 

[Sparx]

I honestly think that you need a reality check. He told you you're pretty. SAY THANK YOU.

And you said "hes a worker of course" Whats that supposed to mean? He's got a job so he's beneath you? Thats the way you're making it sound. I have a pretty freaking nasty job, and I serve people, but that does not make you any better than me. His job is probably a lot cleaner and more fabulous than mine is. You want to talk down to me the way you do to him?

its so hard to be half american half english? I'm not really sure why you even mentioned it. Your nationality has NOTHING to do with this guy.

You're probably really hurting him. He probably has a crush on you, and thinks you're beautiful. But you're being mean to him. You need to back up and THINK before you say anything else to this guy. He's obviously deserving of sainthood for sticking with it this long. Don't throw away a great guy because you can't get over yourself.

I'm really sorry if this post upsets you, but someone has to say it. This guy probably likes you, and from what you've said, you've been incredibly rude to him.

 

[StitchfansJr]

Thank you Stitchsfanjr for introducing this place to me. So...I need help with this guy. He works in my Mum's shop. His a worker of course. But he annoys me so much! . I use to talk to him in a fine way but now he gets me mad so I ignore him. If he comes to my Mum's office when I'm there. I try to avoid him. I know this is dumb and all. I told my Parent's and every adult I know but they keep telling me that I have a crush on this lame guy. Trust me being half American, Half English is hard! Today he gave me a ' compliment ' by saying that my hair was pretty! BUT IT WAS NOT! HE WAS JUST POINTING OUT THAT ITS UGLY. COME ON, I'M UGLY. Why does he have to disturb me. No, he does not do bad stuff to me but he keeps on saying stupid stuff. I tried to talk to him but I end up saying thing's like: "Stay away from me you freak!" How do I conquer my fears and talk this lame-o dude. His just so annoying.

Lovela

I have a friend like that. Always trys to get my attention. Never compliments me though. Just say thank you if he compliments you.

 

[Lovela]

OMG! YOU GUYS ARE CRAZY! HIS LIKE 25 AND HAS A FIANCE AND I'M THIRTEEN. HE HAS NO CRUSH ON ME! As you can see....My grandparent's don't like me going out and all. My mum tells me that too: "Say, Thank You." No Sparx I'm not trying to lower you down. I didn't mean it like that. I dunno why English People don't mix with American's so much...

I have American blood in my veins which make me...Half American! :goodvibe.

I dunno why he likes to disturb me . I will never see his face again! Remember HIS NOT HAVING A CRUSH ON ME. YOU PEOPLE ARE CRAZY. HIS LIKE AND OLD MAN...EWWWW!! GROSS!

 

[Mur13]

Punch him in the face and be done with it.

 

[MuNkY]

OMG! YOU GUYS ARE CRAZY! HIS LIKE 25 AND HAS A FIANCE AND I'M THIRTEEN. HE HAS NO CRUSH ON ME! As you can see....My grandparent's don't like me going out and all. My mum tells me that too: "Say, Thank You." No Sparx I'm not trying to lower you down. I didn't mean it like that. I dunno why English People don't mix with American's so much...

I have American blood in my veins which make me...Half American! :goodvibe.

I dunno why he likes to disturb me . I will never see his face again! Remember HIS NOT HAVING A CRUSH ON ME. YOU PEOPLE ARE CRAZY. HIS LIKE AND OLD MAN...EWWWW!! GROSS!

The way you worded the work comment made it seem like it.

And I think you have the wrong idea. I doubt he gets pleasure out of "disturbing you". I think he's just giving you a complement, and you're like, "GAWD WHY DOES HE HAVE TO DO THAT TO ME!?!?!"

 

[Arielfn93]

Say thank you I guess, and try to ignore him.

 

[DisGirlAllie]

Punch him in the face and be done with it.

Only from you would we hear that.

 

[DisGirlAllie]

OMG! YOU GUYS ARE CRAZY! HIS LIKE 25 AND HAS A FIANCE AND I'M THIRTEEN. HE HAS NO CRUSH ON ME! As you can see....My grandparent's don't like me going out and all. My mum tells me that too: "Say, Thank You." No Sparx I'm not trying to lower you down. I didn't mean it like that. I dunno why English People don't mix with American's so much...

I have American blood in my veins which make me...Half American! :goodvibe.

I dunno why he likes to disturb me . I will never see his face again! Remember HIS NOT HAVING A CRUSH ON ME. YOU PEOPLE ARE CRAZY. HIS LIKE AND OLD MAN...EWWWW!! GROSS!

Random thread. We are all friends there and some of them are from England and we get along great!

 

[Mur13]

Only from you would we hear that.

You know, I had a feeling you would say that.

I guess I'm a violent person. Anger issues I guess.

Oh well, I hardly act on my feelings. And I really don't expect you guys to, I'm just kidding.

 

[DisGirlAllie]

You know, I had a feeling you would say that.

I guess I'm a violent person. Anger issues I guess.

Oh well, I hardly act on my feelings. And I really don't expect you guys to, I'm just kidding.

No I like it. I am the same way. It also makes the person feel better when you say that because it gives them a nice little laugh that reassures them.

 

[Lovela]

Don't worry about the other stuff. Just help me..Should I talk to this lame-o or just ignore him. Thank's for the post's!

 

[DisGirlAllie]

Don't worry about the other stuff. Just help me..Should I talk to this lame-o or just ignore him. Thank's for the post's!

SAY THANK YOU AND THEN IGNORE HIM.

 

[Mur13]

I agree, just say thanks. What ulterior motives could he have whilst complimenting you?

 

[Lovela]

You completely misunderstood me..His Compliment sounded more like an insult...

 

[MuNkY]

You completely misunderstood me..His Compliment sounded more like an insult...

Well you probablt mis-understood him.

Like people have said, just say thank you and ignore him.