when both my kids were in elementary school, I couldn't believe how many fundraisers they had every year. It starts about 3 days after school starts and goes on and on and on. We even have a monthly market day that is a fundraiser. In addition to the gift wrap, candy, candles, they also sell T shirts , photographs by a professional photographer in the spring (probably someone's relative on the staff),and not the "official school pictures", auctions, bake sales,pasta sales, and other stuff I just can't think of right now.
They are both in middle school now, and it is a little better. Some of the fundraisers are the same, but now they sell flowers for valentine's day, and candy roses, and balloons for birthdays, valentines days, lollipops, etc. I honestly think my kids didn;'t even bring half of the stuff home, because they know where it ends up. Also, the school dances are for 2 hours and cost $4. They get absolutely nothing for the money, and for the first one, they had to buy a T shirt to show "support" for the school. Probably because everyone goes to the first dance, and then they find out about them. I feel like the first few months of the school year should be a time for the kids to get adjusted to school again,( since they really have alot of days off with the holidays, and teacher conferences) instead of trying to sell stuff.
Whew.....what a mouthful !!