KristiKelly
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Ok, I'm going to explain this as best as I can & hope that it makes sense (sorry may get long).
My husband runs his own company, nothing fancy, it's a machine shop & he mainly makes the metal frames for office furniture companies, metal furniture & also little fix it jobs for lawn companies, local textile companies, etc. , not a big place just five other people including myself (I do paperwork @ home, when I'm not DISing
).
DH has had one person, Chris, that has been pretty much next in charge when DH is out with customers or on vacation. He recently found out that one of our customers, who has a lawn bus. , has been paying Chris to come to his business & do work for him. Last year alone, he paid Chris $10,000 for work done, this is the same work that DH normally would do, but Chris did directly instead. DH never knew any of this until just recently. A friend of ours has a landscaping co. and was recently @ a training class for fountains & goldfish ponds and this same guy who has the lawn co. was there as well. He started telling our friend & another customer of DH that "yeah, we used to get him (DH) to fix our stuff, but now we just get his boy, Chris to come to our place & do work for us and pay him directly." DH has always known that this other guy is slime, has known that he tries to take other employees away from people, etc., but this is the first time anything like this has happened to him directly. Also, it's not just that he has done this, but he is also telling other customers this & could take more business away. I know that it's a dog eat dog world, but DH is sooo... P-O'd right now, he feels very betrayed by Chris that has worked for him for 8 years. He has spoken with several people & they've said very matter of factly "fire his @#*". DH would have had no trouble if Chris had just gotten a 2nd job, but what he did was deceitful & deliberately took money away from our company & the company that he works for & pays for his & his families insurance. DH has asked Chris on several (more than several occassions) to work overtime knowing that he has a wife & 2 small kids, but he would not, because I guess he had his "other job". He told Dh that this other guy was paying him $25 an hour, but with overtime, DH would have been paying him $22(overtime that is), not worth the difference in my opinion to destroy trust & a friendship.
Anyway, I guess what I want to know is, how would you handle this situation? Is DH overreacting? He says, "when I think about it I just get so mad & then I try to see both sides & I feel like a three year old who's just not getting my way, but it just irritates me!" Would other companies tolerate an employee going to a customer directly and doing work personally & taking the bus. away from the company? Does that make sense? I told you this would be long & I feel it may be a little confusing, if you can figure out what I'm trying to say then I would like your opinion.
My husband runs his own company, nothing fancy, it's a machine shop & he mainly makes the metal frames for office furniture companies, metal furniture & also little fix it jobs for lawn companies, local textile companies, etc. , not a big place just five other people including myself (I do paperwork @ home, when I'm not DISing
). DH has had one person, Chris, that has been pretty much next in charge when DH is out with customers or on vacation. He recently found out that one of our customers, who has a lawn bus. , has been paying Chris to come to his business & do work for him. Last year alone, he paid Chris $10,000 for work done, this is the same work that DH normally would do, but Chris did directly instead. DH never knew any of this until just recently. A friend of ours has a landscaping co. and was recently @ a training class for fountains & goldfish ponds and this same guy who has the lawn co. was there as well. He started telling our friend & another customer of DH that "yeah, we used to get him (DH) to fix our stuff, but now we just get his boy, Chris to come to our place & do work for us and pay him directly." DH has always known that this other guy is slime, has known that he tries to take other employees away from people, etc., but this is the first time anything like this has happened to him directly. Also, it's not just that he has done this, but he is also telling other customers this & could take more business away. I know that it's a dog eat dog world, but DH is sooo... P-O'd right now, he feels very betrayed by Chris that has worked for him for 8 years. He has spoken with several people & they've said very matter of factly "fire his @#*". DH would have had no trouble if Chris had just gotten a 2nd job, but what he did was deceitful & deliberately took money away from our company & the company that he works for & pays for his & his families insurance. DH has asked Chris on several (more than several occassions) to work overtime knowing that he has a wife & 2 small kids, but he would not, because I guess he had his "other job". He told Dh that this other guy was paying him $25 an hour, but with overtime, DH would have been paying him $22(overtime that is), not worth the difference in my opinion to destroy trust & a friendship.
Anyway, I guess what I want to know is, how would you handle this situation? Is DH overreacting? He says, "when I think about it I just get so mad & then I try to see both sides & I feel like a three year old who's just not getting my way, but it just irritates me!" Would other companies tolerate an employee going to a customer directly and doing work personally & taking the bus. away from the company? Does that make sense? I told you this would be long & I feel it may be a little confusing, if you can figure out what I'm trying to say then I would like your opinion.