Epilogue. Chapter 25- 8/23/06 & 9/03/06
The State of Flux. Like it, Hate it, Accept It
I sit here today, August 23, 2006, finishing this story, as my three precious kids sit across the aisle from me in row 6 seats a, b, and c. DJ is next to me because he can be. We no longer need to sit with our children to ensure that no hair is pulled, skin is pinched, blood is drawn between them. This is such a wonderful thing and I look over proudly at them, as if they were the first siblings in the world to get along on a 5-hour air flight in cramped quarters. We are on our way to Disney, again, just 6 months after our last trip. DJ is reading USA Today. Free reading material compliments of the Hilton Hotel that left it outside our door this morning at the Portland Jetport. Free airfare compliments of Delta airlines. Free dining compliments of Disney. What can I say? It was too tempting to pass up. And we only needed 1/3 of our vouchers for this trip. What did we do with the rest ? Well, folks, we are hitting the sunny shores of Hawaii in November, all 5 of us. I have never been there before, but have always wanted to go to the South Pacific. The tickets could not get us to Tahiti, and we actually had to pay a little extra for them above the vouchers, but we are going! I cannot do that trip report on this board, but I will be happy to share this current trip to the Contemporary with you, if you are interested.
We waited 2 years between our first Disney trip with the kids and this one in February, where we came home with just about what we spent for the entire 2 weeks in Florida. I doubt we will have that kind of luck again, but I do know one thing. We will be visiting Disney more than once every two years, if I can finagle the finances and still get trips to other destinations in
.like Europe, the Caribbean, South and Central America
..Disney really is the perfect place to take your kids at the ages our kids are now. And it is so much darn fun. We also like traditions, and going back to the same place, is somehow comforting particularly as life consists of a series of moments that allows for so much change.
This past six months, as I wrote this report, held many events for me. I lost a beloved cat named Moo, who had slept with me nearly every night for the past 10 years. My oldest cocker spaniel, Lily, was in a freak accident and was totally paralyzed, but came back to beat the odds and walk again. My horse herd is down one, as I gave away our old mare to a set of grandparents who own a farm and needed a good horse for their grandchildren to ride. I wrote my first piece of literature, which a few people liked. (Well second really, I wrote an article for my college magazine once, many moons ago, and it is actually that article that intrigued DJ to first ask me out.) My youngest son cut his beautiful locks and needed a crew cut yet again for a third time. My parents surprised me for my birthday and bought us new living room furnishings, soup to nuts. I lost 20 pounds. The winter left, the spring came, the summer was here, and now fall is creeping in.
I went to New Jersey and Pennsylvania twice since beginning this story. Once was on the way to a trip to DC and the in-laws in West Virginia. Another was a weekend getaway to visit a bunch of wacky new friends, friends I met here on the DIS. This was perhaps the biggest surprise of all, making pals here on this little board. It has been an unexpected and wonderful bonus that I never anticipated when I began my first installment last March
.And so blame them, for the fact that I will be traveling to Disney once more, in September, just one month after this trip I returned from a mere five days ago. Okay, you do not have to blame them for my going, that is my responsibility, but for tempting me. I just have to meet all the special personalities I have become so fond of while being here. Friendship. It is a really important part of life. Some people have difficulty qualifying online friendships as real. I am not one of those. I have formed close ties and relationships with a large group of people. They have made me laugh, cry, been there for support and significantly improved the quality of my life. They have taught me new lessons, which for an old hen like me is a great thing. You readers fall into that category, as your contributions have touched me deeply and been a part of my growth. So thanks to all of you for taking the time to read and reply to this story. It has meant a great deal to me, and I am certain I would not have finished had it not been for all your encouragement.
Time ticks on. Life happens. We go forward, if we are lucky, and backwards unfortunately, sometimes. There is no escaping it. Flux. T. S. Elliot wrote about it. Change can be difficult, challenging and even painful, but it can also be miraculous and allow for exciting, wonderful and new things to happen. Change keeps life interesting, stimulating, fresh. It does for me. This past six months since our trip has been a time of personal growth and learning for me. Some experiences have been joyous and a few extremely painful. I have added a few new dimensions to my essence that I feel would not have occurred had I not embarked on this journal. So I take the good with the bad. And just like any athletic competition, there are winning days and losing days
.the goal is to come out ahead when the season is done, even if we want to win every match and don't. So I leave you with my wish, that each one of you has more wins than loses, and comes out on top at the end of the season.
Adieu, Au revior, Shalom, Sayonara, See ya later taters and Goodnight, Johnboy, for the moment. See you all on the morrow.
Horsey out.
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