How old is to old??

[NHdisneylover]

From reading this site for years, it's clear that a % of women (thankfully not all) view most man as evil distgusting people who live to hurt their children.

It's very sad...especially since likely these beliefs are being passed on to their kids as well.

Yep, there are all these little boys basically being taught, by their own parents, that they will grow up to be predators. I seriously do not get the attitude at all.

 

[maxiesmom]

Also mine would stand right outside my stall and not move, (good parenting) if you can't control your child, then maybe don't being him out at all. And if someone tried to take him, I would see it and trust me, they wouldn't get far, unlike being in a men's room with just a couple of other men.

So even with your good parenting, you can't trust your child to stay put right outside the restroom, while you take care of business? If good parenting is enough to keep them in place inside the restroom, it should be enough to keep them in place 15 feet away outside of the restroom.

Even if you bring them inside with you, how would you stop someone from trying to take them while you are inside of a stall, with the door locked, and your pants down around your ankles? If you can't leave your kids outside because you are afraid of what might happen, the only real way of keeping them safe is to take them in the stall with you. Not standing on the other side of a locked door. If anyone's modesty should be forfeit in order to keep a child safe, it should be the parent's. Not everyone else's.

I also think you must hold men in pretty low esteem if you think they would all just stand by while someone took your children, or tried to do something to them while inside the mens room.

 

[ShirikiUtundu]

Justify all you want but let's not pretend that the "worst" things a boy would see in a ladies room at WDW are feet. I have seen women in varying states of undress in ladies rooms ALL OVER WDW. One day, I was one of them, due to an unfortunate incident with a giant bird. Ladies should be able to do what they need to do without having to worry about being oggled by a teenager.

 

[Soldier's*Sweeties]

What is baffling to me is are these women married? Is that how they see their husband's?

Some of them do. There are a few who have admitted they don't like when their children are alone with their DH.

 

[mhsjax]

So even with your good parenting, you can't trust your child to stay put right outside the restroom, while you take care of business? If good parenting is enough to keep them in place inside the restroom, it should be enough to keep them in place 15 feet away outside of the restroom.

Even if you bring them inside with you, how would you stop someone from trying to take them while you are inside of a stall, with the door locked, and your pants down around your ankles? If you can't leave your kids outside because you are afraid of what might happen, the only real way of keeping them safe is to take them in the stall with you. Not standing on the other side of a locked door. If anyone's modesty should be forfeit in order to keep a child safe, it should be the parent's. Not everyone else's.

I also think you must hold men in pretty low esteem if you think they would all just stand by while someone took your children, or tried to do something to them while inside the mens room.

Wrong on most accounts.

 

[mhsjax]

Justify all you want but let's not pretend that the "worst" things a boy would see in a ladies room at WDW are feet. I have seen women in varying states of undress in ladies rooms ALL OVER WDW. One day, I was one of them, due to an unfortunate incident with a giant bird. Ladies should be able to do what they need to do without having to worry about being oggled by a teenager.

Ok, I have been to WDW over 100 times in my life. I have NEVER seen a woman undressed at all.

 

[lillygator]

Justify all you want but let's not pretend that the "worst" things a boy would see in a ladies room at WDW are feet. I have seen women in varying states of undress in ladies rooms ALL OVER WDW. One day, I was one of them, due to an unfortunate incident with a giant bird. Ladies should be able to do what they need to do without having to worry about being oggled by a teenager.

more often than not, the people I see in various states of undress at WDW are not ones you want to be oggling....

 

[Liberty Belle]

What is baffling to me is are these women married? Is that how they see their husband's?

Their husband's what?

Just kidding - I know it's a typo.

But, I have only seen one or two people suggest that about men in all the time I've been here. Maybe I'm missing something.

 

[mhsjax]

Believing every man in the world is out to get your child is laughable.

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Ok. I guess my reading comprehension is out of whack. NOt sure where you get that idea from. Or are you just trying to play into a popular argument here on the Dis.

 

[Liberty Belle]

more often than not, the people I see in various states of undress at WDW are not ones you want to be oggling....

Beauty is in the eye of the ogler.

 

[lillygator]

Ok. I guess my reading comprehension is out of whack. NOt sure where you get that idea from. Or are you just trying to play into a popular argument here on the Dis.

"they" are relatively new, as in last month, to the DIS.

 

[mhsjax]

Their husband's what?

Just kidding - I know it's a typo.

But, I have only seen one or two people suggest that about men in all the time I've been here. Maybe I'm missing something.

NO not a typo. I think this poster has a problem and is just trying to say anything to stir up a fight. He or She thinks that I think that every man is out to get my child. HYSTERICAL.

 

[Liberty Belle]

So even with your good parenting, you can't trust your child to stay put right outside the restroom, while you take care of business? If good parenting is enough to keep them in place inside the restroom, it should be enough to keep them in place 15 feet away outside of the restroom.

Even if you bring them inside with you, how would you stop someone from trying to take them while you are inside of a stall, with the door locked, and your pants down around your ankles? If you can't leave your kids outside because you are afraid of what might happen, the only real way of keeping them safe is to take them in the stall with you. Not standing on the other side of a locked door. If anyone's modesty should be forfeit in order to keep a child safe, it should be the parent's. Not everyone else's.

I also think you must hold men in pretty low esteem if you think they would all just stand by while someone took your children, or tried to do something to them while inside the mens room.

Not necessarily - it depends on the child. A child with ADHD may easily see something, get distracted and wander off.

Also, if you think bystanders always step in, you should watch "What Would You Do?" I've seen episodes where children are taken and no one does a thing.

 

[Soldier's*Sweeties]

NO not a typo. I think this poster has a problem and is just trying to say anything to stir up a fight. He or She thinks that I think that every man is out to get my child. HYSTERICAL.

That poster said typo because of the apostrophe.

And when I commented on the other poster you are not one of the people I was thinking of if it makes you feel better

 

[mhsjax]

Yep, there are all these little boys basically being taught, by their own parents, that they will grow up to be predators. I seriously do not get the attitude at all.

You can't seriously be buying into this attitude from these couple of posters. If so, I am really disappointed in your thought process.

 

[ShirikiUtundu]

Ok, I have been to WDW over 100 times in my life. I have NEVER seen a woman undressed at all.

I have been over 100 times as well, and have, on numerous occasions. I have seen women changing into or out of bathing suits, from park clothes to nice clothes, washing out their clothes in the sink, and once I even saw two women at the Yacht Club in nice (dinner or reception) dresses come into the bathroom and remove their dresses to wash their armpits and put their dresses back on.

 

[ShirikiUtundu]

more often than not, the people I see in various states of undress at WDW are not ones you want to be oggling....

I will mostly agree with you, but I'm pretty sure a tween/teen boy whose mom still makes him go to the ladies room with her is going to take it where he can get it, if you know what I mean.

 

[mhsjax]

That poster said typo because of the apostrophe.

And when I commented on the other poster you are not one of the people I was thinking of if it makes you feel better

Oh I know it wasn't you. It didn't even come up with your name on it.

 

[maxiesmom]

Not necessarily - it depends on the child. A child with ADHD may easily see something, get distracted and wander off.

Also, if you think bystanders always step in, you should watch "What Would You Do?" I've seen episodes where children are taken and no one does a thing.

The poster I quoted stated that her "good parenting" would ensure her kids would stay right by her bathroom stall. Implying that they therefore wouldn't see anything, and wouldn't be in danger. If her good parenting can ensure that, it can also ensure they stand still while 15 feet away. Outside of the WOMENS restroom.

 

[mhsjax]

I have been over 100 times as well, and have, on numerous occasions. I have seen women changing into or out of bathing suits, from park clothes to nice clothes, washing out their clothes in the sink, and once I even saw two women at the Yacht Club in nice (dinner or reception) dresses come into the bathroom and remove their dresses to wash their armpits and put their dresses back on.

I guess I have been very, very, very lucky.