Same with my dad! I didn't realize until later. He did let on about some things, without giving me the full details.Nothing. My dad was in the USAF. Didn’t know what he did. Still don’t. It was classified. This didn’t seem odd to my as a child, since lots of military brats lived that life. We had “no need to know”.
tvguy, you must have been one of a few kids with working moms during those days, yes?Most everything, I think.
My dad was a lumber salesman. He would drive to the lumber mills, sometimes taking my mom and I, buy a couple semi loads of lumber, get in the car, drive home and find a buyer for them before they were delivered.
My mom was a surgical nurse on the overnight shift. Ate a lot of breakfasts as she told me what kind of surgery (usually emergency on the overnight shift) she worked on. Usually pretty graphic. Needless to say, I never had a skate board, roller skates, never went snow skiing or had a motorcycle.
I did learn an important life lesson. Once in the while she came home and said "the operation was textbook perfect, but the patient died". Always from some ailment not related to the surgery, but I learned that you can do something perfectly and still ultimately fail.
Well, my mom took 5 years off when I was born, until I started Kindergarten. She went back to work in 1962. Certainly fewer moms worked then, but about half the mom's in my neighborhood worked. Most of my friends had keys to their houses and let themselves in after school. What later became known as latchkey kids, was just being a kid for us.tvguy, you must have been one of a few kids with working moms during those days, yes?
(I know some women worked of course. Especially in certain careers. My own grandmother worked when most did not. )
Wow. interesting.Certainly fewer moms worked then, but about half the mom's in my neighborhood worked. Most of my friends had keys to their houses and let themselves in after school. What later became known as latchkey kids, was just being a kid for us.
Our schools had closed campuses K-8, so you couldn't leave. Our High School, grades 9-12, did have open campus, but most did not. Two of my three Aunts in Canada worked full time. Same time frame.Wow. interesting.
I am a bit younger. Not one mother worked in my neighbourhood. When I was in public school, elementary to you, only about four or five kids tops did not go home for lunch. In my age group.
And then there was my aunt who was the first female bank manager in Canada. She was like a superhero to me, at that time.