Haven't read the whole thread but I've been an AP for 4 years and go at least 3 times a year, usually more. I just got back from a 3 day trip to celebrate my 60th birthday and will be going again in a week with my nephew (also an AP).
This past weekend (my birthday trip) I was there 2 1/2 days and only rode the monorail, the train and Toy Story Mania. I spent all the rest of the time going to shows, listening to bands, strolling, eating at Blue Bayou, just meandering.
I get all kinds of gas from family and friends but...I couldn't care less! I love DL!