How fast it all changed.

[jodybird511]

You are one strong lady, Rodeo--so wonderful for your husband that you stood strong for his wishes. Hugs to you.

 

[disney212]

Sorry you had to deal with that. Sending hugs and prayers.

 

[Psychodisney]

I'm sure your husband would be proud of you for standing up for him when he couldn't. You were brave to do so. We sure don't pick our families...or our inlaws! Prayers for you and your family.

 

[lsyorke]

You did beautifully! Drop that guilt..you were perfect. Nows the hard part....just be there and love him. The rest is already decided. Thinking of you.

 

[Owlpost23]

There is no rehearsal for anything like this.For you to be as eloquent and poised as you have been in all your posts is absolutely remarkable.I stand in awe of your determination and ability to cope with the impossible.Know that you are held in high regard here.Hugs to you and yours...

 

[Wendy31]

A "last moment" (especially one in which your husband can't really actively take part anyway) is not going to change any of the scenes that came before which caused your DH to say no originally.

You are your husband's last rampart. Do not feel guilt for adhering to your husband's wishes & then standing guard to maintain peace & serenity around him.

 

[J'aime Paris]

So proud of you Rodeo! You are doing a remarkable job under such stressful circumstances!
Always thinking of you and praying for your family!

 

[OKW8297]

Rodeo you have been a tireless advocate for your DH. You have honored his wishes and navigated an impossible situation with grace. I pray for peace for your DH and comfort for you and your children.

 

[vicwishes]

You have been handling things extremely well. I can’t even begin to imagine all the decisions you’ve had to make and all the tasks you’ve had to handle. My thoughts of strength and love to you - you are an exceptional woman.

 

[lanejudy]

rodeo65 i’ve been following. You and your children are in prayers.

 

[okeydokey]

You are an amazing wife and mother, truly.

It's too bad they had to force the issue, but you can know that you did right by him. Bless you.

 

[anniemae]

You did just fine. No guilt.

 

[#1hoosierfan]

You handled it with dignity and grace. Continued hugs and prayers.

 

[Wis2InTink]

I am so sorry that your family is going through this. My husband lost his battle with cancer 2 years ago. My suggestion would be to write everything down in a spiral notebook...who did you speak with, phone numbers and the dates. There were some errors made with our accounts (credit cards and insurance). Financial investments were confusing. The notebook helped me. It is overwhelming. Enjoy each precious day.

 

[OhhBother]

You stood with your husband -- just as you promised to do when you exchanged vows years ago. I am inspired by you. You are the embodiment of a wife's love for her husband. What a gift you gave him today.

 

[Minnesota!]

You stood with your husband -- just as you promised to do when you exchanged vows years ago. I am inspired by you. You are the embodiment of a wife's love for her husband. What a gift you gave him today.

100% this. You fulfilled your vows today beautifully.

I admire your strength.

 

[tink1970]

Continuing to pray for peace for you and your family. What a strong supporter you are of your DH and his wishes-that is being a good wife. You are an example for us all!

 

[Dentam]

It sounds like you did an amazing job of supporting your husband under the circumstances.

 

[MamaBelle4]

You stood with your husband -- just as you promised to do when you exchanged vows years ago. I am inspired by you. You are the embodiment of a wife's love for her husband. What a gift you gave him today.

I could never express this any better.

Continuing to pray for you, Rodeo.

 

[lisaviolet]

I was overcome reading your update Rodeo, for so many reasons. Such grace back to a mother, at every turn, who herself was filled with emotions. Such incredible grace and love Rodeo. For whatever reason, it overwhelms me to see what your husband found in you and the family you created. You did so well.