The problem I've seen and I could be way off is the interaction after being stopped. From those I've witnessed being stopped it seems when a white kid is stopped the majority(not all) of these are genuinly apologetic and answer questions with "yes sir" or "no sir". While the opposite for blacks, a majority(again not all) seem to right off the bat give an officer an attitude with "what you stopping me for" or "I haven't done anything" just go back in this thread and you'll see the differences of how many react to being stopped. I'll question an officer but Respectfully. I was always told you can't point a finger at everyone else without four of them pointing back at you.
I agree with this statement wholeheartedly. My next-door neighbor and I were talking a few days ago, and in our conversation, he made the comment that he taught his kids that officers are not trustworthy. (This is a local businessman, wears a suit and tie to work everyday, lives in a nice suburban area--even if our city is known as meth central, our area isn't--and speaks like a southern gentleman. He's also African American. I am white.)
I asked him what he taught his kids to do if they were ever stopped by the police, and he responded "I told them to say I didn't do it, and to not give the officer their name or any help." Not even to show their id upon request? "No." What if they are out past curfew and are told to go home? "No, they can tell the officers to leave them alone and walk away."
We've taught our kids that if they are stopped by an officer, they are to be polite and use yes sir and no ma'am to answer questions. We've also taught them that if the officer wants to see your id, you show it to them. If the officer wants to ask questions that they feel might take a bad turn for them or take them away from the situation--be it a traffic stop or a drug raid, they need to tell the officer "I'm under 18. You need to call my mom or dad, sir." We've taught them to wait until the officer releases them, or until we arrive to help handle the situation, but that if they feel the situation is unsafe, they need to request the officer send for someone else, preferably higher in the food chain.
Two different ways that people handle this issue.
DH doesn't trust or like the police. He feels that because of the "bad cops" and the fact the "good cops" don't police their own often enough, that all police are inherently bad. But that doesn't stop him from being polite and calm when he's had to have interactions with them. (BTW, he's 6'4" and currently 250 lbs. Shaved head. Huge shoulders and arms.)
He's been arrested by those small town Georgia sheriffs (the ones that wear the mirrored sunglasses with the mirrors on the inside), in his youth. He says "those are the scary officers. Not the big town guys, in SWAT with the big guns. It's the small town guys, the ones who know the judge and where the bodies are buried that you have to watch out for. They know that if they do something wrong, the judge is going to say 'too bad son' to you."