I am booked through an agency right now and the woman I've been dealing with is awful. She is now lying to me and telling me that I cannot cancel (I'm over 50 days out) and saying that my dining is connected to my reservation which I know it is not. She said the dining will be cancelled if I cancel my trip through her. She's refusing to cancel. What can I do?
How awful. I would call Disney and explain the situation. I have heard of cases where Disney will take over the reservation. It's worth a try.
I would also change your password on MDE and call Disney Dining and explain the situation and try to change your identifying information - different phone number, etc. - so she can't access your ADR's any more. You are correct - your ADR's are not tied to your resort reservation, but it sounds like she is going to cancel them out if you cancel. Awful, awful, awful.
You could also, as other PP's have suggested, try to get ADR's for the same restaurants and around the same times that you have now and then simply cancel out the ones she made for you. Then she can threaten all she wants and it won't matter.
I agree, I would write a letter to her informing her of your cancellation and even send it certified mail and write an e-mail. When you speak with Disney, ask them who, at the company, you can send a copy of this letter to. They need to know what's going on. Especially if she's with an EarMarked agency - Disney keeps a very close watch on them!
I'm really sorry you are going through this. What she is doing is completely unethical and just bad business.