It's funny how things are different from community to community, school to school. Our kids get pretty dressed up for homecoming. The girls wore long dresses, the boys wore suit or "the uniform" (navy blue blazer, khaki pants, tie). The girls all had wrist corsages and the boy all wore boutinaires. MY DS went two weekends ago and they got a limo, went to a nice restaurant and went to a after-party after homecoming. This is all pretty standard in our community. Most of the girls had their hair and makeup done also. I felt bad for the one girl, she had to spend the day at a cross-country meet and was not able to go to the hairdresser. She was the only one in my DS's group. He had 11 in his group, also how they do it, they all go in big groups. One girl did not get a date and she went along with his group. That also happens, if you don't get a date, you just go with your group of friends.