High School Class of 2016/College Class 2020

Pretty much the only issue my daughter is having is she says the food is terrible so she bought some frozen meals. we are telling her to try more meals at college and if you like a handful of them then that is better than frozen stuff. She is 3 hrs away so its not like she can come home to eat. Is anyone else's child not liking the food? What are they doing about it?

I am only hearing from her when she needs textbooks or something else. she will be home next weekend and then again in October.

Dd is eating breakfast in her room-yogurt and granola (thats what she has always eaten in the morning), lunch on campus and they do different things for supper-order pizza, make a Sonic run and a couple of nights they have invaded the home of one of her friends. 10 girls all showing up for dinner with 30 minutes warning!! The 10 of them eat together pretty much every night.

She says the food is ok. Better some days than others. But supper is many times leftovers from lunch. There is a grill where she can order a burger or chicken sandwich but not sure of the hours.

I have to say, it does seem to be working on her pickiness though!!
 
DD had a little scare. She is used to seeing the way her high school did online grades, where everything is totalled into a running percentage along with the raw scores. Well she went online and saw the score for her chemistry lab was a 59.5 and almost cried. Then she realized that it was out of 60 and they figured that college kids can do their own percentages.

I have to make the five hour round trip out there four times next week. She has to have surgery on her ankle Friday and needs to visit with the doctor first on Wednesday. She wants to miss as little school as possible and is mostly concerned about her spanish class and chemistry lab. I am picking her up Tuesday night, taking her back Wednesday afternoon, picking her up again Thursday night and then back on Sunday. We want to get this surgery done before the snow flies. Her school recently was named the campus with the worst weather in the US and I don't want her walking through it on crutches.

Since she had to drop marching band, she doesn't see those kids as much so she joined the writing club to meet people and to make friends. She thinks she's really going to like it. I guess her roommate is making friends because DD said that one of the girl's friends has a car and they went to a nearby town to shop. Her mom came to visit so that probably helped.

She already had a visit to the health center. She thought she had strep throat, but the doc says it is viral. I am hoping it is gone by Wednesday. But other than all that she's doing great.
 
Lol ds18 went for a strep test yesterday, viryl. I was surprised, because his roommate has strep.

His brand new laptop is having issues, so he's heading home now to take it back. He took uber to the train station, and then light rail 3 miles from here, I'm waiting to pick him up.
 

DD is using the "clicker" (discussed a couple of pages back that many of us here were mystified about) like an old pro now, lol. A person she knows who gradauated this year told her she should've bought it instead of renting it as she'll need it all four years. Live and learn. Anyway, in one lecture that she has in a big lecture hall, they use it for class participation. As they go along in the lesson they "click in" their answers. It doesn't matter whether the answer is right or wrong in class, but it does matter that they're participating. Ha!

Both of my kids are enjoying school. DD already has a nice group of friends in her major and they're doing things together like getting breakfast, hanging out around campus, group chats, etc. She walked six miles the other day in a few hours. She was excited because she and a friend smelled popcorn cooking and followed the trail, then figured out she could get a bag for $.75, so she was all over that. Ah, the little things that make someone happy! :p Commuting has been going well, they're figuring out what works best and their routines are varying day to day. DD drove in with DS one day but took the train home. Another day she gave a ride home to one of her new friends who lives nearby. She likes her schedule, a couple of days she doesn't have to be in till late morning, which is a welcome change. DS's days are longer as all of his classes are early and he has to stay late for his sport, but he's figuring it out, too. He does have some time to get his work done at school which is good, and he's found some places around campus he enjoys. He's made some friends as well even though practices haven't really gotten underway yet. He and one of his friends discovered the game room and whoopie pies - what's not to love? :lmao: At home we're like ships passing in the night as we all work varying shifts and hours. Their work schedules are limited to one weekend day until they get settled in school, but eventually they'll figure out if they can do a few hours here and there. They like having their paychecks and the money comes in handy for parking and food at school. So, glad things are finally underway and they're settling in!
 
His brand new laptop is having issues, so he's heading home now to take it back. He took uber to the train station, and then light rail 3 miles from here, I'm waiting to pick him up.
Bummer about the laptop! A coworker was telling me that her son, when he came home from college last spring, put his laptop somewhere in the house, but doesn't remember where. They found the cord, but not the laptop itself! So he has no laptop now and wants to buy another one! Meanwhile, she's tearing the house apart trying to find it! She is not happy with him, lol.
 
Bummer about the laptop! A coworker was telling me that her son, when he came home from college last spring, put his laptop somewhere in the house, but doesn't remember where. They found the cord, but not the laptop itself! So he has no laptop now and wants to buy another one! Meanwhile, she's tearing the house apart trying to find it! She is not happy with him, lol.
Well, he got here, but forget the cord! Ds13 realized he must've lost his backpack in the spring - nowhere in the house (this happened 2 minutes before heading out to school on the first day). Ds18 has been running every day, playing club soccer, and eating healthy, and down 17 pounds (started school at 200, he's 6'2"). He looks great!
 
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That's cool. DD found out that she lost five pounds so far in the three weeks she's been there. She has been terrified of the freshman fifteen, but she's finding that she is sometimes too busy to eat - plus she gets her 10k steps on her fitbit just walking back and forth to class.

Before she went to the health center for her sore throat, I stressed several times that the Blue Cross card is medical - the Cigna card is prescriptions. She still forgot. She and the medical biller finally figured it out - it's not readily obvious. She said as she left, she heard the staff saying she was cute. (Not attractive cute (athough she is) but Awww freshman kind of cute).

She likes the food okay. The dining hall by the residence hall is better than the one by the classes. I told her that I was having nachos for dinner one day last week - so she went to the late-night to grab something and they happened to have nachos that day. She was thrilled. Her room has a full kitchen so sometimes her roommate and she will cook a meal. I got her the 10 meal a week plan because I know she isn't going to want to run home all the time to grab something to eat. She was unhappy with her roommate the other night because she used the blender for a fruit smoothie and didn't wash it or even rinse it afterward. DD was up at 2 am and had to do it. She doesn't even see the irony in that.
 
Haha, funny with the blender! DS has been running, too. He's in good shape. DD's in good shape, too, though she's not an athlete. She's getting a lot of walking and stair climbing in (I think she said 17 flights one day when she was running around school), and she's planning to use the gym and pool at school. She's also sort of effortlessly shed some pounds this summer, and she realized it was probably because she was no longer working in the restaurant at the HS, where sampling some of the rich foods was the norm. :p
 
DD spent 2 years at boarding school before she went off to college- the food at college is a definite big step up from high school meals! Her big find has been the athletic meal hall (attached to the athletic dorm). Any students can eat lunch there, but only those on the athletic meal plan can eat dinner. Their lunch spread is pretty amazing! DD tries to get there twice a week or so for some really fancy lunches.

All first year kids are required to have the top of the line, unlimited meal plan (very, very pricey). We are encouraging her to take advantage of the meal hall food as much as possible. Luckily, she likes the food and there are a lot if great choices for vegetables and fresh, healthy foods. Meal halls are pretty close and convenient to her dorm/classes, too.
 
DD got a bid to join the engineering fraternity, Theta Tau. She and one of her roommates are at the pledging ceremony/party tonight. She also joined the Women in Engineering club, an environmental club, and a political club. She is really loving her college experience!
That is Awesome! Sounds like she is really finding her niche!

So, glad things are finally underway and they're settling in!
2nd, 3rd, and 4th this! Although DD texted in a panic that the book she needs for class, and ordered off amazon, she forgot to change the address to her dorm. Luckily we have a fed ex business account, I'm off tomorrow when it is scheduled to be delivered, and I can fed-ex it overnight. 'Course her panic text was at 11:30 last night. I was sleeping soundly and had to work today so...there have been several followup texts. LOL.

Family weekend this upcoming weekend. Bringing her sister and brother so they can see her dorm, the town, campus etc. DS is really missing his oldest sister-she was really good at helping soothe him with his anxiety issues so I am missing her too (for many reasons-how did she suddenly get so big??). Also missing my extra driver alot-my middle DD is involved in everything (band, French club, Key club, Pay it forward club, science olympiad AND wants to try for swim team next month!) as a HS freshman.

Luckily DD loves the food at her college-although we bought the 2nd level meal plan (14 meals a week + flex money to use at Starbucks etc) she had been averaging about 11 meals a week...I am sure that will even out though. Her classes are all over campus so she is getting her workout just walking-and the campus is set in hills. She thinks she actually has more leg muscles now than from marching band :cutie::rotfl: Did I mention this is NON Athletic child???
 
Ugh! DD's roommate dragged her to health services today...sinus infection and strep.
 
Ugh! DD's roommate dragged her to health services today...sinus infection and strep.

Oh no!!! At least she's on meds, and you know she has a roommate she can count on.

At the risk of being labeled a helicopter mom, my daughter and I drove down to see my son on Saturday. We left at 6, and got there by 9:30. He had a 10:30 appointment at Apple to have the cracked screen on his phone replaced. It was a 45 minute drive-- no parkways, all local streets. (We passed 9 churches and a street fair.) They replaced the screen, ran some diagnostics, and the phone failed. So they replaced it for the price of a repair.

Next stop was Best Buy, 20 minutes away, somewhat towards the direction of school. He explained that the laptop he brought just before leaving for school had never worked, the message he got was that it wasn't reading the hard drive. (So it was pretty much a $2000 paper weight.) Best Buy policy was to send it out for repairs, which would have cost 2 weeks and required another half hour drive for a college freshman with no car. I asked to speak to a manager. The sales guy spoke first, explained that we had just made a 3 hour drive from Long Island to handle this, that we couldn't go last week because of the threat of the hurricane, and that my son had already lost 2 weeks. The manage asked me (my credit card had paid for it) exactly what would make me happy, and I said I would like to leave with him having a working laptop. He made an exception to company policy and gave my son a new laptop.

Next stop was Target, to get enough food (mostly junk) for the 4 suitemates for a while. There was some soup and there were 2 cases of water and some Gatorade, but mostly junk. But B said he's been working out every night and hitting the salad bar a lot, so I'm not terribly worried on the weight front. Their suite has apparently become one where the guys hang out, and I'm fairly confident that a good portion of that junk food disappeared over the weekend.

A quick stop at Kohls and then on to Applebees. In addition to lunch, we ordered a serving of Buffalo Wings to go-- the guys can heat them up in the microwave.

By then it was 4 pm. I was going on 3 hours sleep-- I had babysat for a neighbor until 1 am Friday night. I knew the ride home would be risky, so we got a hotel for the night. By 4:30 my daughter was out cold. We napped and watched TV until 10, then called it a night. We got up early yesterday morning and were on the road by 7am, home by 10

So it was a VERY good trip. Had I not gone down, it would have easily cost him a good $100 in cab fare. After 2 weeks in school, he doesn't know anyone with a car well enough to ask a favor of this magnitude. Last week he was miserable, now he's happy and talking about what it takes to become an RA. He texted my husband Saturday asking a question about MLA form, so he was in the midst of printing some homework using that laptop.

All's right with the world, and it was a good trip. As a bonus, my 16 year old daughter got her first college tour. She doesn't want to go there-- she wants to forge her own path-- but at least she's seen one school and has a baseline for comparison's sake.
 
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How is your DS doing?



DD has found some meals that she likes but is having trouble finding time to eat. Her classes start at 8 am and the dining hall doesn't open until 7:30. So that makes getting a hot breakfast next to impossible (too many other kids trying to do the same thing at the same time). The same goes for lunch - long lines, but she does have 1 1/2 hours. Problem is, most of her classes require her to carry a lot of art supplies, portfolio, etc. So she needs to drop those off in her room first, then go back to the dining hall (and then back to the room to pick the supplies back up before returning to class).

Then the dining hall is only open from 4:00 to 7:00 pm for dinner and she often isn't hungry until after 7:00 (or is doing homework until that time). So in the first two weeks, we paid for 28 meals for her (we are required to purchase the 14 meals/week plan for first year students in the residence hall) but she only ate in the dining hall 11 times. What a huge waste of money.

She texted me earlier this week showing me her lunch. PB&J. Luckily there is a grocery store on the next block and she just picked up the supplies for PB&J to keep in her room.

That is the same problem my son is having! I love his school but this is the one thing that is annoying me. We have to pay so much money for the dining plan and it is never open at convenient times for him to eat. So he is missing out on meals we have paid for and either eating ramen noodle soups or buying meals at the nearby restaurants. Thank goodness we switched him out of the unlimited plan to the 14 meals a week plan. This gave him more dining bucks to work with.

He has already decided that next semester he is going to switch to the 9 meals a week with even more dining bucks to eat at the restaurants.
 
Oh no!!! At least she's on meds, and you know she has a roommate she can count on.

At the risk of being labeled a helicopter mom, my daughter and I drove down to see my son on Saturday. We left at 6, and got there by 9:30. He had a 10:30 appointment at Apple to have the cracked screen on his phone replaced. It was a 45 minute drive-- no parkways, all local streets. (We passed 9 churches and a street fair.) They replaced the screen, ran some diagnostics, and the phone failed. So they replaced it for the price of a repair.

Next stop was Best Buy, 20 minutes away, somewhat towards the direction of school. He explained that the laptop he brought just before leaving for school had never worked, the message he got was that it wasn't reading the hard drive. (So it was pretty much a $2000 paper weight.) Best Buy policy was to send it out for repairs, which would have cost 2 weeks and required another half hour drive for a college freshman with no car. I asked to speak to a manager. The sales guy spoke first, explained that we had just made a 3 hour drive from Long Island to handle this, that we couldn't go last week because of the threat of the hurricane, and that my son had already lost 2 weeks. The manage asked me (my credit card had paid for it) exactly what would make me happy, and I said I would like to leave with him having a working laptop. He made an exception to company policy and gave my son a new laptop.

Next stop was Target, to get enough food (mostly junk) for the 4 suitemates for a while. There was some soup and there were 2 cases of water and some Gatorade, but mostly junk. But B said he's been working out every night and hitting the salad bar a lot, so I'm not terribly worried on the weight front. Their suite has apparently become one where the guys hang out, and I'm fairly confident that a good portion of that junk food disappeared over the weekend.

A quick stop at Kohls and then on to Applebees. In addition to lunch, we ordered a serving of Buffalo Wings to go-- the guys can heat them up in the microwave.

By then it was 4 pm. I was going on 3 hours sleep-- I had babysat for a neighbor until 1 am Friday night. I knew the ride home would be risky, so we got a hotel for the night. By 4:30 my daughter was out cold. We napped and watched TV until 10, then called it a night. We got up early yesterday morning and were on the road by 7am, home by 10

So it was a VERY good trip. Had I not gone down, it would have easily cost him a good $100 in cab fare. After 2 weeks in school, he doesn't know anyone with a car well enough to ask a favor of this magnitude. Last week he was miserable, now he's happy and talking about what it takes to become an RA. He texted my husband Saturday asking a question about MLA form, so he was in the midst of printing some homework using that laptop.

All's right with the world, and it was a good trip. As a bonus, my 16 year old daughter got her first college tour. She doesn't want to go there-- she wants to forge her own path-- but at least she's seen one school and has a baseline for comparison's sake.
Ds took his $500 laptop back to Microcenter, they gave him a brand new one (minus the cord, since his was at college), plus a 1 year warranty. DH drove him to the Penn Station (light rail doesn't run as frequently on Sunday's), and the new laptop works!
 
Yay! So far, DS first year at college is doing good. He seems to like all his teachers. His allergies are bothering him, but thankfully not sick so far.

Ha! When my DS graduated, we got him a really good laptop. Since he's commuting, his high school sister sneaks using it. She's got a chrome book but that's smaller and his is nicer! LOL

He's already thinking of taking some classes over summer. I said, if you do, you're paying for all of it. I told him the summer's when you rake in as much money as you can. :D
 
It's a shame the meal plans aren't working out so well for some of the "kids." I guess I now feel a little better about DD's plan. Hers is just a cash value to be used at her discretion, paying per item in the dining halls, stores, restaurants, etc. on campus. It was pretty hard to figure out how much to buy because we didn't know the per item prices. So we just took the middle of the line cash amt and figured we'd adjust as needed.

After the first week, she estimated how much she was spending per meal, and we did a little math. It worked out to about 14 meals per week at her current spending level.
Which is about right, two meals a day is what she's had time for. She's keeping a bit in her room for snacks to cover another "meal" per day. So far, she's been making pretty healthy choices for her room: tuna, wraps, fresh fruit and veggies, cereal and milk. We'll see if that holds up once the pizza buying starts.
She's been lucky that the "health food store" is attached to her dorm. It makes it a little easier to make better snacking choices. She also has a Walmart about a mile away where she has purchased groceries for a fraction of the campus cost. So meals and budgets are working out better than we had hoped.

I've got to be honest I was a bit worried about the Freshman Fifteen for DD and was encouraging her to find a way to workout on campus, take the stairs, etc long before she got to campus. She's only 5'1" and puts on weight very easy. She doesn't play a sport, but has enjoyed doing a few 5 and 10K runs during high school. That's about the extent of her high school athletics. She found an on campus organization for women that brings a different instructor to campus each week to teach different workouts. So far, they've had a boot camp style circuit training and "Zumba with drum sticks" which she really liked.
They also have regular times to go to the athletic center for your more typical group workouts. And, they also have a private online Facebook group so they can discuss dining options and arrange schedules to meet for jogging, swimming, hiking, whatever they are interested in. So, she's got lots of options as far as maintaining a workout schedule, if she wants to.
I've got to admit, I was thrilled about all of this since I was worried about her jogging alone, crossing campus early or late to go to the gym alone, or not doing anything at all for those reasons... She's already made a couple friends through the group and is glad she took a chance and signed up.

As far as taking the stairs (my suggestion), she ended up on the tenth floor. So.... she actually still tried it (not sure I would have, six is about my limit, lol), she is starting to get shin splints. She's not sure if its the stairs, but she started to skip them every other time to see if that would help. I thought maybe she should just take them slower, maybe she's trying to go up to fast and mainly jogging up on her toes? I know I used to get shin splints from jumping rope and I figured it was related to being on the front of my foot (toes) more than not. So, we'll see if she can get past the pain and keep up her stair walking.

I'm sorry so many of your kids are already getting sick. I guess we should have expected that, new community, new bugs... they'll probably all do a lot better as the year progresses. So far, so good for DD.

Things have been running pretty smoothly for my daughter, no problems with classes, other than a professor who curses like a sailor. DD finds that a bit annoying. lol. She tried to go to her first football game Saturday night. The Christian group on campus tailgated before the game, but the weather got rough and everyone ended up having to shelter with the players in a practice field. Once they released them, the game was still delayed, and DD and her friend finally gave up and went back to the dorm. So, a little excitement, but no game. lol.

I hope everyone starts feeling better soon and computers and classroom glitches get worked out. College is stressful enough in the beginning without technology breakdowns and starvation (lol).
 
Oh no!!! At least she's on meds, and you know she has a roommate she can count on.

At the risk of being labeled a helicopter mom, my daughter and I drove down to see my son on Saturday. We left at 6, and got there by 9:30. He had a 10:30 appointment at Apple to have the cracked screen on his phone replaced. It was a 45 minute drive-- no parkways, all local streets. (We passed 9 churches and a street fair.) They replaced the screen, ran some diagnostics, and the phone failed. So they replaced it for the price of a repair.

Next stop was Best Buy, 20 minutes away, somewhat towards the direction of school. He explained that the laptop he brought just before leaving for school had never worked, the message he got was that it wasn't reading the hard drive. (So it was pretty much a $2000 paper weight.) Best Buy policy was to send it out for repairs, which would have cost 2 weeks and required another half hour drive for a college freshman with no car. I asked to speak to a manager. The sales guy spoke first, explained that we had just made a 3 hour drive from Long Island to handle this, that we couldn't go last week because of the threat of the hurricane, and that my son had already lost 2 weeks. The manage asked me (my credit card had paid for it) exactly what would make me happy, and I said I would like to leave with him having a working laptop. He made an exception to company policy and gave my son a new laptop.

Next stop was Target, to get enough food (mostly junk) for the 4 suitemates for a while. There was some soup and there were 2 cases of water and some Gatorade, but mostly junk. But B said he's been working out every night and hitting the salad bar a lot, so I'm not terribly worried on the weight front. Their suite has apparently become one where the guys hang out, and I'm fairly confident that a good portion of that junk food disappeared over the weekend.

A quick stop at Kohls and then on to Applebees. In addition to lunch, we ordered a serving of Buffalo Wings to go-- the guys can heat them up in the microwave.

By then it was 4 pm. I was going on 3 hours sleep-- I had babysat for a neighbor until 1 am Friday night. I knew the ride home would be risky, so we got a hotel for the night. By 4:30 my daughter was out cold. We napped and watched TV until 10, then called it a night. We got up early yesterday morning and were on the road by 7am, home by 10

So it was a VERY good trip. Had I not gone down, it would have easily cost him a good $100 in cab fare. After 2 weeks in school, he doesn't know anyone with a car well enough to ask a favor of this magnitude. Last week he was miserable, now he's happy and talking about what it takes to become an RA. He texted my husband Saturday asking a question about MLA form, so he was in the midst of printing some homework using that laptop.

All's right with the world, and it was a good trip. As a bonus, my 16 year old daughter got her first college tour. She doesn't want to go there-- she wants to forge her own path-- but at least she's seen one school and has a baseline for comparison's sake.
What happened with the dental situation?
 
As far as taking the stairs (my suggestion), she ended up on the tenth floor. So.... she actually still tried it (not sure I would have, six is about my limit, lol), she is starting to get shin splints. She's not sure if its the stairs, but she started to skip them every other time to see if that would help. I thought maybe she should just take them slower, maybe she's trying to go up to fast and mainly jogging up on her toes? I know I used to get shin splints from jumping rope and I figured it was related to being on the front of my foot (toes) more than not. So, we'll see if she can get past the pain and keep up her stair walking.

That's definitely a lot of stairs!

I just wanted to throw this out there. When my DD was in high school she played on the tennis team and developed shin pain. I took her to the doctor and she had her start taking 2 vitamin D gummies and 1 calcium gummy everyday. It really seemed to help her. She told me that she went out to buy them again because all of the activity that she's doing now, she started having the pain again.

Not sure that it would work, but it definitely helper my DD.
 

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