barbnjmom - I know how you feel - I'm also heading down on Sat.- meeting up with my sis and her 3 boys at Universal, then going over to BWV to check them in for the week. They flew down last Friday and weathered Charley on the 9th floor of the airport hyatt (with the little guy (6) on the floor of the bathroom in tears

). They were going to spend the week before WDW with her fr-in-law in Ft. Myers and our niece in Tampa. Right now they have found a wonderful resort in Cape Canaveral and have decided to stay there until meeting me back in Orlando. Her fr-in-law came to stay with her until his electric is back on.
As hard as it is for me to now feel excited to go and 'play' where so many people are suffering, this trip is also bittersweet for us - we started planning it last fall when my sis lost her husband to west nile virus. He had been promising their youngest DS, who had never been to WDW, for years that he would take him when he turned 6 yo. He turned 6 yo a month after his dad died, so our families started then to plan this trip and give them all something to look forward to and fulfill my br-in-laws promise.
This is probably way too much info, but, in short, I plan to go, put a big smile on my face, have as much fun as I can muster (which is usually a lot), create some magic wherever I can for my sis and my nephews, proceed with lots of patience and understanding for all the CMs and locals, and leave really big tips!! I live and work in a tourist area and know how important it is to our local economy! Let's go and make the best of it and try to spread a little sunshine in the sunshine state !
Hope you have a wonderful trip!