SuperTink
Magic Memory Keeper
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- Nov 2, 2006
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I think the lack of empathy and finger pointing are a defense mechanism for most.
If they can find blame then it's easier for them to process- ie. this happened b/c the parents did xyz so it won't happen to me.
To feel compassion and/or know it could happen to them is a bit too much for them to emotionally handle or even try to handle.
Bingo!