When people talk about division in this country, this thread is an example of what they're talking about. Within hours of what is an absolutely horrendous tragedy occurring, people are already arguing about whose fault it is and other stuff that, in all honestly, is irrelevant. Here's what matters: a family forever lost their 2 year-old-baby on vacation at what is supposed to be the most magical place on Earth. Mind you, this is on the heals of a historic tragedy just minutes down the road and increasing safety concerns in the parks. In my opinion, nobody sitting hundreds or thousands of miles away typing on their keyboards behind a computer screen has any place in assigning blame or speculating about what happened. Right now, these parents (and the poor people who were at the GF around them whose vacations I'm sure have been unimaginably marred as well) needs our prayers and our love. If all you can give them is hate, then you might very well be part of the division problem in this country.
Could this tragedy have been prevented? Possibly. Should they have been swimming or even wading in the lakes? No, but just because they broke rules that many people don't understand (when Disney uses the verbiage "beaches" it does imply swimming) does not mean they should be subject to this kind of unimaginable fate. Like another PP said, I want to believe that those judging are doing so in an effort to make them feel safer, that this only happened because this family was breaking the rules, and because their family always follows them, they are safe from this sort of attack. But even I can be a Monday morning quarterback. Unfortunately, and the last few days certainly serve as a reminder, no matter how many rules you follow you still are vulnerable. I've seen gators walk right over one of the holes on one of the Disney Golf Courses. Does following rules keep you safer? Of course and everyone should, but I'm just asking that people not resort to judgement and hate, as we've all already seen far too much of that in the last few days.
It truly has been an unimaginable rough few days for WDW. I know most of the CMs have certainly felt it, so I'm just asking everyone who visits in the next few weeks to keep that in mind and be especially kind and courteous to the CMs. It cannot be easy to see the place you work show up at the top of the front page of CNN.com for the last few days. I know they, as well as WDW as whole, will persevere and continue to make even-more-needed magic for their guests during these tough times. That's why I return so frequently and why I proudly call myself a Disney fan. I've been visiting WDW (a pass holder for most of those years) for 17 years, and I've seen them get through 9/11, back-to-back hurricanes, and much more, so I know they will get through this and help their guests, many of which may also be struggling with all this incredibly sad news, get through it. That, I think, is the real magic of Disney: leaving the stresses and pressures of reality momentarily at the gate, something that some people need now more than ever.
And to the few people I've seen questioning if they should continue with their upcoming WDW trips, I beg you to please, please follow through with your vacation plans. I'm going in two weeks for the Fourth of July holiday and remain incredibly excited (happen to be going with someone who was at the Pulse nightclub two weeks prior to the shooting). Don't let hate and fear win. Show the CMs that you appreciate them profusely and that you stand with them and Orlando. Show your friends and family at home that you are a proud fan of Disney and Orlando and will support them regardless of the news. Yesterday, I toured Pearl Harbor to find the flags there at half-mast. It reminded me that, as scary as things may seem right now, we've been here before, and we've united and persevered through these kind of tough times before. We did so not by fighting, finger pointing, and hating but rather by coming together, caring for each other, and going about our normal lives. Do what you can do to help. Most importantly, whether it be at WDW, at home, or on an internet message board, spread love and compassion.
Sorry for the long post; I just needed to get it off my chest.