HBO's series BIG LOVE Discussion Thread

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For now, NO spoilers *please*!

Dh and I started watching Season 1 on dvd. We've seen the first 4 epi's, and I absolutely am hooked on this series now! :) I'm anxiously awaiting Season 2 to start! We subscribe to HBO with our cable now! :thumbsup2

I've never cared for Bill Paxton too much, but he plays his part in this show well. The whole polygamy lifestyle puts a whole spin on the series. It's as off-beat and entertaining as Six Feet Under!

I don't know how Barb does it! She's my favorite sister-wife. Next I like Nikki - but not her shopaholism. I dislike Margie - she's immature and annoying.
 
I caught an episode over the summer....all I can say...thank god for OnDemand....I think my DH and I watched the entire season in a weekend.
I like Barb and Margie....I think Nikki is mean.

Warning to anyone who hasn't seen it yet: NOT FOR KIDS AT ALL!!!!!
 
I liked it too and was hooked but the last episode of the season turned me off. I won't tell!! But please let us know what you think when you've finished.

I heard it wasn't renewed for a second season - have you heard otherwise?
 
I caught an episode over the summer....all I can say...thank god for OnDemand....I think my DH and I watched the entire season in a weekend.
I like Barb and Margie....I think Nikki is mean.

Warning to anyone who hasn't seen it yet: NOT FOR KIDS AT ALL!!!!!

ITA about not for kids! We have to watch when the kids are asleep.

Yeah, Nikki does act kind of mean. She doesn't seem to respect the other sister-wives on "their days" and she is dishonest. Margie is just soooo childish.

Barb is definitely my favorite!
 

I was waiting for a thread about this. I have watched the first season on dvd. I have questions is this a true story or just for tv? or some real some for tv? Is that they way they all live?
 
I liked it too and was hooked but the last episode of the season turned me off. I won't tell!! But please let us know what you think when you've finished.

I heard it wasn't renewed for a second season - have you heard otherwise?

I saw a preview the other night on HBO for the new seasons of all their series. It vaguely mentioned new episodes coming after the holidays. :confused3
 
I saw a preview the other night on HBO for the new seasons of all their series. It vaguely mentioned new episodes coming after the holidays. :confused3

From everything I've seen the new season is in June.
 
I was waiting for a thread about this. I have watched the first season on dvd. I have questions is this a true story or just for tv? or some real some for tv? Is that they way they all live?

This is funny because what hooked me was I kept thinking "do people really live like this? How?!" I kept watching partly out of morbid curiousity. I don't agree with a lot of the things I saw this family doing, but it was interesting to see another point of view.

I'm going to guess that like every other religion, there are some practitioners who are very strict and some who are not as strict.
 
Love Big Love!!! DH and I got HBO just for Sopranos and ended up hooked on Big Love. Both ended and we canceled our HBO but plan on renewing when they come back.
No spoilers - it'll be interesting to see where they go from their finale.
 
I LOVE this show! Keep watching. It's amazing the way they twist and turn the story line. I would be really ticked if they did not at least have a short 2nd or final season to wrap SOME things up.
 
Love Big Love!!! DH and I got HBO just for Sopranos and ended up hooked on Big Love. Both ended and we canceled our HBO but plan on renewing when they come back.
No spoilers - it'll be interesting to see where they go from their finale.

I've heard Sopranos starts in March for their final 6. Better get your HBO back!!!:thumbsup2
 
I've googled and yahoo'd "polygamy" but I can't seem to find their reasoning for it. Does anyone here understand why they do it?

The things I've read say that the first husbands who practiced polygamy said they received a message from god to do it. I just don't get why god would give them a message to take multiple wives. :confused:

When we watch the show I comment to dh that I'd be eaten up with jealousy! Like when Margie got the new car I told dh that I'd pop the tires! He said, "Why are you so mean to my other wives?" :lmao:
 
I've googled and yahoo'd "polygamy" but I can't seem to find their reasoning for it. Does anyone here understand why they do it?

The things I've read say that the first husbands who practiced polygamy said they received a message from god to do it. I just don't get why god would give them a message to take multiple wives. :confused:

When we watch the show I comment to dh that I'd be eaten up with jealousy! Like when Margie got the new car I told dh that I'd pop the tires! He said, "Why are you so mean to my other wives?" :lmao:

Just taking a stab in the dark here but maybe more wives to increase the size of God's kingdom here on earth. I mean 1 wife can have 1 kid per year, but 3 wives can have 3 kids in a year so a practicing polygamist can be very helpful in growing the kingdom.
 
I absolutely love Big Love! Can't wait for next season's episodes!

And call me crazy, but I love Margie.
 
I've googled and yahoo'd "polygamy" but I can't seem to find their reasoning for it. Does anyone here understand why they do it?

The things I've read say that the first husbands who practiced polygamy said :


For Mormons who practiced this years ago,they saw it as a continuation of OT practices with multiple wives...You need to look up Plural Marriages,as Mormon's called it...This practice IS not sanctioned by the LDS..


SOme info
Essential to Salvation
After a special conference held in 1852, the Mormon church leaders began to devote much of their time to the preaching of polygamy. During the period that the Mormon church was openly practicing polygamy, the leaders of the church were declaring that it was absolutely necessary and essential for exaltation. One woman testified as follows in the Temple Lot Case: "Yes, sir, President Woodruff, President Young, and President John Taylor, taught me and all the rest of the ladies here in Salt Lake that a man in order to be exalted in the Celestial Kingdom must have more than one wife, that having more than one wife was a means of exaltation" (Temple Lot Case, p.362).
Sixth president Joseph F. Smith spoke with clarity on the issue:

Some people have supposed that the doctrine of plural marriage was a sort of superfluity, or non-essential to the salvation of mankind. In other words, some of the Saints have said, and believe that a man with one wife, sealed to him by the authority of the Priesthood for time and eternity, will receive an exaltation as great and glorious, if he is faithful, as he possibly could with more than one. I want here to enter my protest against this idea, for I know it is false. . . . Therefore, whoever has imagined that he could obtain the fullness of the blessings pertaining to this celestial law, by complying with only a portion of its conditions, has deceived himself. He cannot do it. When that principle was revealed to the Prophet Joseph Smith . . . an angel of God, with a drawn sword, stood before him and commanded that he should enter into the practice of that principle, or he should be utterly destroyed. . . .

If then, this principle was of such great importance that the Prophet himself was threatened with destruction, and the best men in the Church with being excluded from the favor of the Almighty, if they did not enter into and establish the practice of it on earth, it is useless to tell me that there is no blessing attached to obedience to the law, or that a man with only one wife can obtain as great a reward, glory or kingdom as he can with more than one. . . .

I understand the law of celestial marriage to mean that every man in this Church, who has the ability to obey and practice it in righteousness and will not, shall be damned. I say I understand it to mean this and nothing less, and I testify in the name of Jesus that it does mean that (Journal of Discourses, vol. 20, pp.28-31).

In 1891 the president and apostles of the Mormon church made the following statement in a petition to the President of the United States:


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We, the first presidency and apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, beg to respectfully represent to Your Excellency the following facts:

We formerly taught to our people that polygamy or Celestial Marriage as commanded by God through Joseph Smith was right; that it was a necessity to man's highest exaltation in the life to come.

That doctrine was publicly promulgated by our president, the late Brigham Young, forty years ago, and was steadily taught and impressed upon the Latter-Day Saints up to September, 1890 Reed Smoot Case, vol. 1, p.18).

In addition, the Latter-Day Saints' Millennial Star carried the following comments:

And we, . . . are believers in the principles of plural marriage or polygamy, . . . as a principle revealed by God, underlying our every hope of eternal salvation and happiness in heaven . . . we cannot view plural marriage in any other light than as a vital principle of our religion (Millennial Star, vol. 40, pp.226-27).

Upwards of forty years ago the Lord revealed to His Church the principle of celestial marriage. . . . the command of God was before them in language which no faithful soul dare disobey.

"For, behold, I reveal unto you a new and an everlasting covenant and if ye abide not that covenant, then are ye damned; for no one can reject this covenant, and be permitted to enter into my glory. . . ."

Damnation was the awful penalty affixed to a refusal to obey this law. It became an acknowledged doctrine of the Church; it was indissolubly interwoven in the minds of its members with their hopes of eternal salvation and exaltation in the presence of God. . . . Who could suppose that . . . Congress would enact a law which would present the alternative to religious believers of being consigned to a penitentiary if they should attempt to obey a law of God which would deliver them from damnation! (vol. 47, p.711).

William Clayton claimed that he learned from Joseph Smith that "the doctrine of plural and celestial marriage is the most holy and important doctrine ever revealed to man on the earth, and that without obedience to that principle no man can ever attain to the fulness of exaltation in the celestial glory" (Historical Record, vol. 6, p.226).

George Q. Cannon said that if he "had not obeyed that command of God, concerning plural marriage, I believe that I would have been damned" (Journal of Discourses, vol. 23, p.278).


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A photograph of the Journal of Discourses, vol. 20, page 28. Joseph F. Smith, who became the sixth president of the church, stated that a man with one wife could not received as great an exaltaion as a man with more than one.

Brigham Young declared on August 19, 1866: "The only men who become Gods, even the Sons of God, are those who enter into polygamy" (Journal of Discourses, vol. 11, p.269).
At one time Joseph Smith told Heber C. Kimball that if he didn't enter into polygamy "he would lose his apostleship and be damned" (Life of Heber C. Kimball, p.336).
Kimball Young stated: "One man recalled a Stake conference in Southern Utah where the brethren were bluntly told to marry in polygamy or 'resign their church offices'" (Isn't One Wife Enough? p.108).
The Mormon writer John J. Stewart, writing in 1961, still upheld the teaching that plural marriage leads to exaltation: "Plural marriage is a pattern of marriage designed by God as part of His plan of eternal progress to further His kingdom and exalt His children" (Brigham Young and His Wives, p.71).
 
When I first started watching I thought "Most men can barely handle one wife, so this should be interesting!" :)
 
I read online today that the premier isn't until June 3rd. That's too long to wait!
 


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