Maxie86
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Thanks guys! No matter what we are going because we have paid for the package and he knows I will go without him. I think he is just worried about leaving his parents. He is a real family guy and has a lot of love and respect for his parents and feels a little guilty. I think it will pass. We are going to St. Louis for Thanksgiving for 5 days with his parents and his sister so we will get to spend plenty of time together. I just feel pressure to make this trip perfect so he has a good time and does not feel like he wished he were at home. I have to admit that I am a little nervous about not waking up at home on Christmas morning but when I think back I know how much work it all is and how exhausted I am the entire day!
Deb- I think theirr decision will be VERY last minute. My MIL just keeps saying we will see how FIL feels at that time. He is 82 and is in good shape but they are driving and that is a LONG drive. We shall see. My SIL is driving them down. My nephew (who is in college) is also going. He is grandpa's favorite grandchild so if he tells grandpa to get in the car...hopefully it will happen!
Hope everything works out for you. Grandchildren do have a way of getting their grandparents to do things they don't want to do.
I am sure they will have a great time once they get there. It is just the getting them there, I know.
DH's elderly aunt said she is not coming for Thanksgiving, which means she probably wont' come for Christmas either. I refuse to feel guilty about it and will just send food over to her house.

. My sister wanted to have Christmas last year but my dad told my mom that he would rather all of us kids go to their house......he just likes to be at his house with all his kids, sons-in-laws, and grandkids......that's how he sees Christmas
. And we all live local......so it's not like he'd have to travel overnight somewhere
. I guess he just likes things to be like they've been for years without changing it.....and being away from home just wouldn't be Christmas to him I guess
. Maybe your nephew will have some pull since he is grandpa's favorite
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131 days until spring.
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in....but other than that it won't be a very productive day
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You got the Grand 1.

. I hope she's feeling better soon