Have You Ever Wanted Something Very Badly

[sweetandsassyfl]

and then when you found out that it was very likely to happen, reacted with fear rather than happiness? Jody told me on Friday night that he'd like to gradually approach the point where we're living together and change the part of him that likes his alone time right now. It's all I've ever wanted with him but I was also absolutely certain it wouldn't happen...that it was just a fantasy. My reaction the other night was "BUT I don't know if I want that to change....what if we moved in together and found out we didn't like each other and we lost each other completely?" and I was almost to the point of tears. He said "that's why I said gradually....that way we'd know by the time we're ready whether it will work or not." Am I just a silly, overemotional pregnant woman or can anyone else understand my reaction?

 

[wall*e2008]

and then when you found out that it was very likely to happen, reacted with fear rather than happiness? Jody told me on Friday night that he'd like to gradually approach the point where we're living together and change the part of him that likes his alone time right now. It's all I've ever wanted with him but I was also absolutely certain it wouldn't happen...that it was just a fantasy. My reaction the other night was "BUT I don't know if I want that to change....what if we moved in together and found out we didn't like each other and we lost each other completely?" and I was almost to the point of tears. He said "that's why I said gradually....that way we'd know by the time we're ready whether it will work or not." Am I just a silly, overemotional pregnant woman or can anyone else understand my reaction?

I am guessing the Jody is the father. Why would you not want to have the baby live with both of it's parents?

 

[sweetandsassyfl]

He is and I do....it was just that my immediate reaction was fear of things changing.

 

[mickeyboat]

Well, I think you are facing a lot of changes in the near future, and fear of change is normal.

I think as far as the commitment is concerned, that ship has sailed. You will be connected for a lifetime through your child.

Good luck!

Denae