I really can see both sides of this issue. I guess in a way I'm on both sides. I have been the person with the tray of food trying to find a table, and I know what it feels like.
On the other hand, I really don't know how my family is going to handle this when we're there this summer. We have never experienced them "policing" the tables on our previous trips. They did when we were at Universal this past Dec, and it was an issue for us. They only seemed to "police" the inside tables there, so we ended up outside a lot. This wasn't as big a deal in Dec as it will be in July.
I will be there with myself, DS's 11 and 14, my mother, and my father. My father is in a
scooter. DS 14 is high functioning autistic, and DS 11 has juvenile fibromyalgia and is in a wheelchair part of the time. We generally try to find an out of the way spot to park the scooter and wheelchair outside, then the guys go find a table while my mother and I get the food. Sometimes I bring the wheelchair in if we can only find a 4 seater table. My experience with WDW counter service is that there really isn't a place to wait off to the side. Plus, two of my guys really shouldn't be standing for a long period of time. The third guy, DS 14, requires a bit of special handling at times when he's in crowds.
I guess the guys are going to have to wait someplace outside of the restaurant until we get the food. Then Mom and I will get food and table, then call them to join us. Will they let them come and join us, even though they won't have the food, it will already be at the table with us? I want to try to follow the rules, but I have to try to figure out how to make them work for my family.
PS We own both the scooter and wheelchair, and both are used for people with real disabilities. Though you may occasionally see me switch kids, as DS 11 needs to stretch sometimes, and DS 14 can have BIG anxiety issues. Yeah, I read the latest scooter thread.