linzjane88
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OP, I think a bigger issue is your child's oral sensitivity and guarding behavior. Is she a picky eater? She may have a sensory disorder causing her to be orally defensive. Obviously oral hygeine is really important and if she has such a problem just letting you brush hed teeth, something might be up.
I have a child with autism with extreme oral oversensitivity. The dentist visits have been a long, slow process. I recommend you find a dentist with experience working with special needs children, as they are often much better at dealing with kids with oral defensiveness and have lots of techniques and tricks they use to make kids comfortable. My son was born with an extra tooth (a mesiodent) right in his front upper gums. Right when he lost the baby tooth, it started growing in. It is not a normal tooth, and his adult tooth was right above it. So, it had to be pulled. He was 5 years old at the time and had barely gotten to the point where he was able to tolerate X Rays. We weighed all the options, including a papoose board, general anesthesia, and nitrous. I ended up just choosing nitrous and hoping for the best. Because of how wonderful the dentist was, and how quickly she worked, it ended up being no big deal. I was sweating it out BIG time, but in the end, my son handled it way better than I expected. Bribe her HEAVILY (my son got a game boy out of his procedure).
I recommend finding a dentist used to working with difficult patients, then using nitrous and doing them all at once. I would only recommend nitrous if your child is really good at following directions, though, since they do have to take breaths in a certain way as directed.
Honestly she is the most adventerous eating kid I know! LOL. She just gets very hysterical when it comes to dentists or doctors visits. I can't blame her too much because I want to react in about the same way at the dentist office I guess. One of her big things with letting me brush her teeth is the toothpaste. She hates it and we have tried every brand a flavor under the sun.

. When I got my wisdom teeth taken out as a teenager the denist gave me enough valium to take down a moose and that was one of the most fabulous dental appointments ever. I have a tiny handful of things I remember. Mostly everything in between me walking out of my front door to the appointment to waking up at home was gone though.
. My little snuggly, cuddly baby. I realize I am getting probably way more worked up than I need to about the whole thing and that these are professionals who do this every day. I think I may have just enough knowledge to be dangerous and annoying
. I am doing exactly what I hate my patients/visitors doing. LOL.