We had to take out a whole credit line on a disney chase for our trip to be able to make it to our parent's anniversary cruise. I realize that isn't the most responsible way to handle things, but it's time we could never get back and passing on it because our friends asked us to join them on a carnival the month before wasn't really an option.
My point is that even though we are a bit strapped from the trip, we did buy one excursion of a lifetime and I'm SO glad we did. Castaway will be an excursion on its own. In our case, it was the only time all 3 of us girls have been in the bahamas (we all live in different states) so we did the Sea Lion encounter at $115 but it included the ferry and beach activities and snorkeling at Blue Lagoon (cuz we have our own goggles and equipment we bring with us) so for me, that was the excursion of a life time.
You never know. What about grandma and grandpa, aunts uncles etc? MAybe they can help kick in a little towards the kids dream of parasailing?
Either way, on a
DCL, it is a GREAT family investment. Honestly if you never even got OFF the ship at all, it would be an amazing amazing trip. So yeah, you are good, no matter what you decide.
And no more of that guilt, mommy! Disney is the happy only zone! You are a tremendous single mother and your kids will never forget it. Only happy wishes and energies I am sending to you!