. Is Smidgy joining you in this venture? If not, that will make it very difficult.
gee, thanks Marita..
Wow. Bears lose. You got your issues with your eye.
And you're gonna quit smoking? You're a better man than I am, Gunga Din! Good luck. As you can see from all the posts, we're all rooting for ya!
love that movie!
And have Smidgy join you in your new endeavor. Healthy and wealthy from not smoking.

(Sounds good, anyway.)
ok, for those of you wondering if I am quitting too: (sigh)
I am not a SMOKER, smoker. example: I had my first cig. today at 10:15 PM, on my way home from work tonight.
I really only smoke when: I am having some cocktails.
OR: I am with Nebo on vacation.OR,
really bored.
it's not that important to me. but when I DO smoke, I enjoy it.
when we get together at Todd and Kimmy's house, and nebo and Jeremy and my brother Dan go out to smoke(todd and Jeremy being our sons) well, last time I don't think I had even one smoke. I did have a couple cocktails, but I was too busy visiting with everyone, and being with the grandkids to even care about it. and Todd is like me, too. he smokes now and then, but hardly ever when he is with his son (he gets him every other weekend)
Yes, I had a beer at work, while cleaning up, so I had a cigarette on my way home. It's weird, ,maybe I'm not addicted to the nicotine? If I don't drink, I'll go 2 days without a cig and not miss it at all. and wave Nebo's smoke away, and comment on how stinky the house is. but, now, at the 'puter? I have a beer and a cig.. and another cig. oops, another. when I drink at home, I chain smoke. I admit it.
at the football gathering we were at yesterday, I went out with him a couple times, had a few puffs, but I really didn't even want to. too cold. but wanted to go with him.
The canteen manager at the VFW goes outside often to smoke. she says to me "diane , did you quit?" no, I'm tending bar right now, and I really don't care one way or the other if I have one or not." (i'm not drinking, so I don't want one)
at the restaurant, the other waitress will step out for a smoke, if it's slow. It's only if it's REALLY slow, and she's smoking anyway, that I'll have one, just to chat with her.
on vacation, he smokes a lot less than usual, I smoke a lot more than ususal. why? well, the drive down. once you get really bored...
But I smoke a lot more on vacation cause he wants to go to the DSA... SO, as long as I'm there.. I have a cig, too. but I could do without it, and rather would. now, later.. when we have a cocktail, then I'm all about "let's leave the room and go to the DSA for a smoke"
, I could go the whole day at the park without a smoke. and often I get really irritated, when there is SO much to do, and he wants to go to a DSA.. yet again!! look at all the wasted time. I'm always trying to sneak another ride or attraction in, before another DSA stop. in fact, last few trips, I have often told him, "you go to the DSA, I'll go get fast passes, then I'll come back and get you. and I never even have one.
the times I Do smoke, I
really do enjoy it, and since it's not that much, part of me feels like I should be able to. Like, if someone is addicted to chocolate, and can't stop eating it, should the person who enjoys it now and then have to quit eating it? but, obviously, they shouldn't CHOW DOWN on it, in front of the other person.
but I have told Nebo, "we'll quit together", just so HE will quit. (and, of course, it's not good for me, either) we all know about cancer, COPD, etc. but for him, the most important thing is his vision. and now that it's gotten worse, it's really important for him to quit.
whenever we CAN move, we will never sell this house the way it smells. Jeremy never comes over with his family, cause his wife can't stand the way it smells. (he still smokes himself.. shouldn't, he has bad eyes also, just not as bad as Nebos) we don';t smoke around the grandkids. we can't smoke in either son's house, (or anywhere, for that matter) so it just makes sense to quit.
and , of course, there is that little MONEY factor!
I still haven't answered, have I? I just wanted to set the matter straight, that even though I smoke occasionally," I don't consider myself a "real smoker".
so I guess I'll join Nebo in his endeavour. which won't bother me at all, MOST of the time. but will drive me crazy when I really Do want to smoke. But, yes I know he will never quit unless I give it up, too. So we will quit together .
we are kinda joined at the hip anyway. we rarely do anything without the other. why stop now?

Now about the smoking...we all know it's going to be tough, but you can do it!! And we like you grumpy...we've all stayed during the last two trip reports haven't we??
The real love and support will probably need to go to Smidgy!!
We're all routing for you!!

And just think with all the money you'll save on cigarettes, you'll probably be able to squeeze in another trip to Disney!!!
thank you! actually, he is more addicted to smoking than anyone I know. It's going to be very hard on him.