Friends & Family Don't Understand

However, I am fairly well traveled and no matter where I go, the real world is there. No matter how well I am pampered or taken care of, it is still part of the real world. When I am at Disney the real world completely disolves and I become a kid again. As long as Disney can continue to repeat that - I will keep coming back!

I love this post. It sums up my feelings. Anywhere else I go, I still feel "connected" to the real world. I work two jobs and spend most of my time doing stressful (though very fulfilling) things. For me, I need that week or two in Disney every year to detach from reality and just check out for a bit.

I have friends who have beach houses, lake houses, and country houses. Some spend entire summers at these locations. I don't see any difference between that and going to Disney. For some reason, though, it isn't seen in the same light by many. A beach house is seen as a lifestyle thing, while Disney is viewed by most as a frivolous trip you do every so often, particularly when the kids are young.
 
(Given that our friends and family don't share our passion for WDW it is great to have the chance to visit this board to read posts from like minded people :love: I'm curious to know what makes WDW so special for my fellow DVCers. For us it's not 'all about the Mouse' it's the whole package. )




The chance to spend The Christmas season at WDW, to see all the amazing decorations and the chance to soak up the atmosphere during this season makes me feel so fortunate.
 
Ah, this thread warms my heart. It really is "a feeling". I love the way you all describe it, "being taken care as opposed to being pampered" and "removed from the real world". Our DD will be going off to college in the fall, but we will still plan our trips to WDW. We will even try to sneak in a few by ourselves:rotfl2:
 
DW and I have been a DVC members since '93. Our family and friends have never once questioned our reasons for going to Disney again, and we live an hour away from the Mouse House. We have a family member who is a CM.
When someone has made a comment that questions our vacation planning, I have stated, "He who pays the piper calls the music". :rockband:
If someone wants to send me on a vacation I will gladly go and have a great time. When I pay I am going where I want too and that is DVC!
 

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Anyway, enough of me droning on. Over to you. What is it about WDW that keeps you coming back?

"You're here for a good time, not for a long time!" :dance3:

I agree the whole package makes it for us. Besides everything you already mentioned, I think just seeing the looks on other guests faces always makes my day. Seeing happy faces whether they are on young children or a senior in a ECV. There's is just something about seeing that kind of joy that makes our vacation even more special.

Thanks for starting this thread.
 
Early 60s, empty nesters and families that just kind of shrug their shoulders! Kids don't really care about going, despite our bribery attempts. Nine year old grandson has only been once! We'd love to take people more often but things always come up. Have taken my 80 plus year old mom more than our kids and grandkids. Youngest granddaughter is 3 and her dad doesn't think she's old enough yet and he wants just their family to go first. So maybe we'll get a shot at going with her in 4 or 5 years. We've been to the shore with them, to Lake Michigan, etc but they all want to pay their own way and it's expensive--even with free lodging! Fortunately, we're also happy to go by ourselves!
 
Love this therapy!!! Thanks for all for sharing. We all know it's the "feeling" we get when there. Inexplicable to a certain extent, but you are sure capturing the essence!!!

We are early 40's with young children, 3 & 7, and we enjoy Disney with them and as adults only. As a matter of fact, this is setting up to be an adults only year. DW and a friend for 3 nights in April and then us for a sweet 10th anniversary trip in Sept. Poor kids, lol!!!!


I love being a captive audience in such a fantastic setting.

Jim
 
For us it's not 'all about the Mouse' it's the whole package.

:thumbsup2 Could not have said it any better!


- The Disney atmosphere - seeing so many people having fun.
- The endless amount of things to do and see.

:thumbsup2

- The escapism. The WDW experience could't be further from our our every day life of pressurised 12 hour working days.

:thumbsup2 This is why we keep buying! :rotfl:
 
My wife and I went 4 times last year! We are under 30 - we honeymooned there and I have been in love since then! (Yes, in love with both my Wife and my Mouse.) :rotfl:

My co-workers already think I'm crazy - so I mailed them a Coconut from Walt Disney World in December. You can buy said Coconuts at both the Pirates In the Caribbean Gift Shop and at the Polynesian Gift Shop (the one downstairs).
On this coconut I wrote - "We are stranded at Walt Disney World - DO NOT send help!"

My co-workers now think I've totally slipped off the edge! I have Mickey and Minnie, tons of Potato Heads, Mr. Incredible, Buzz Lightyear, Woody, Bullseye, and Slinky dog along with a bunch of other Disney 'stuff'.

They think we have a strange addiction! Well, I guess we do!

We own at 3 DVC resorts - and just passed ROFR on a 4th resort today - so we will be owners at 4 resorts by the time of our next trip in May.

There are SOOOOOOO many reasons to LOVE Walt Disney World, Disneyland, and Disney Cruise Line.

When we vacation with Disney we never have to worry about having a good time - we could go to WDW for a week - without tickets to the parks - and STILL have a great relaxing and entertaining time - without leaving the resort! Give me a book - and send me to Wilderness Lodge, the Grand Floridian, Animal Kingdom Lodge, or the Boardwalk with my Kindle, my iPod, and a drink bottle and I'm good to go for an entire day!

WE LOVE DISNEY! :lovestruc :love: :cloud9:
There are no two ways about it!

We could ride the boats around Bay Lake and 7 Seas Lagoon all day and be perfectly content! Breakfast on the beach at the Polynesian, Lunch at the Contemporary, afternoon snack at the Grand Floridian, and Dinner at Wilderness Lodge - and then a ride of the monorail loop over to Epcot - around spaceship earth during Illuminations, and then back to spend the evening by the fireplace at Wilderness Lodge - that would be an AMAZING day! :banana:

You two are not alone - my wife and I do not have children either - and we have a BLAST every time we go! We are just now getting to the point of NO MORE RUNNING! It's not IF we come back - it's when we come back - and we know it will be next year!

We only have one trip planned this year - but we definitely want to make it to Disneyland either this year or next. I got to go for the first time this year as part of Disney's Agent Education Program - and I LOVE Disneyland - and Disney's California Adventure Park. They are both GREAT parks!

BUT - don't feel weird - we LOVE Disney as well!

I'm up to 3 Disney Cruises now - and we have our 4th and 5th cruises planned!

WE LOVE DISNEY!!!!!!!!!!!! :wizard:
 
Heck even if I didn't have kids I'd go every year. People at my work think I'm cracked as well but I just don't care anymore. I'm almost 50 and I love the mouse. You're right - WDW is the only place I can go and feel really "away" from it all.
 
I'm enjoying everyones comments. I'm 45, single with no kids and within the past 5 months renewed my love for Disney all over again.
 
We are also in our early 40's without children and just love Disney and DVC. I think our friends and family are now used to our Disney addiction. Some get it, some don't but that is okay with us. Some people go to the beach each year, we just go to Disney once or twice (sometimes three) times a year. You found the BEST place to share and help your Disney addiction.

Cyndi

We're in our 30's without kids too... I think most of our family get it and *some* of our friends too. I figure people are either Disney Folk, or they're not, and if they're not they don't tend to understand. :-)
 
DW and I have been a DVC members since '93. Our family and friends have never once questioned our reasons for going to Disney again, and we live an hour away from the Mouse House. We have a family member who is a CM.
When someone has made a comment that questions our vacation planning, I have stated, "He who pays the piper calls the music". :rockband:
If someone wants to send me on a vacation I will gladly go and have a great time. When I pay I am going where I want too and that is DVC!

Thanks for sharing...do you mind if I use that quote?

Most of my colleagues just don't get it, my in-laws went one time 20 yrs ago and can't believe there is anything left that we have not done, my husbands co-workers tease him for going so often (and now call him "Disney Dave":rotfl:)

I have come to the conclusion that there are some people who will just never understand and I count it as a blessing that they will not be crowding the parks and getting fastpasses ahead of me. :rotfl2:

So happy that I found this community of Dis fans.:grouphug:
 
Wow! I couldn't have hoped for more interest in this thread. Your comments make my wife and I feel part of something special and validates our decision to buy DVC. :cloud9: I agree with PK Wallaby - I'm chuffed to be part of this community and to be able to relive the magic :wizard: through all of your threads and comments.

Thank you
 
Right there with ya OP! We're in our 30's and don't have kids, but we LOVE Disney!

Instead of retyping everything I've thought over and over, I thought I'd copy and paste a recent post from my blog. (I blog about my dual life of being a singer and a travel agent all in one.) Most people in my life totally understand that Disney is "my thing", but there are a few who just haven't gotten it. So I sort of wrote this in response to those few people.......


“Why Disney?”



How many Disney fans haven’t been asked this question? It seems that you will always have those people you run into that don’t get your love of Disney World. Maybe they haven’t been there before. Maybe they only went once as teenagers when they were “too cool” to let themselves like it. Maybe they think it’s just for kids. Whatever the reason, those of us who love this wonderful place are left baffled and confused as to why someone wouldn’t share our passion.



I figured I’d share my own reasons for loving this wonderful place called Walt Disney World. Perhaps to preach to the choir, or maybe perhaps to even enlighten a few “doubters” out there.



1. Why not?

So, we go to Disney every year. What’s wrong with that? Aren’t there people who go to the shore every summer? Or what about those who rent a house in the mountains every year? Or what about the people that take a Caribbean cruise every year? How is going to Disney every year any different? Some people like to lay on the beach for a straight week. Some of us would go stir crazy after two days and need to have more activity. For example, I remember a trip to the Outer Banks when I was in college. I know some people love the Outer Banks and I respect their appreciation of it, but it was probably the most boring vacation I had ever had in my life. I was so sick of sitting on the beach and I was scared to go too far into the water because I thought sharks would get me.



2. Theatre!

As many of you know, I’m a singer. It’s what I went to school for and what I have primarily chosen to do with my life. I’ve been in over 30 productions of opera, operetta, and musical theatre. I LOVE theatre! Well, Disney is one giant interactive theatrical experience! And I’m not just talking about the literal theatrical performances that happen on Disney stages. I’m talking about the little details in every nook and cranny, on every ride, in every attraction. Every where you go in Disney, it’s like being on an elaborate set of a wonderful show. And each ride has a story! Don’t get me wrong, I love a good roller coaster like the ones at Dorney Park or Six Flags. But they’re just a barren track sticking up in the air. At Disney, they create a storyline, a set, props – a FULL theatrical experience from start to finish. Let’s take Expedition Everest in Disney’s Animal Kingdom for example. Disney built a replica of Mount Everest right there in the park, and you ride a train into the mountains in search of the Yeti – only to have the Yeti find you first. Not only do you experience a fun ride, but you are immersed in the story of it from the very moment you get in line. Who else does that?



3. It’s affordable!

Many people think that Disney trips all cost a lot of money. Wrong. It’s probably one of the cheapest vacations you can take in this country. Depending on where you stay and how long you go, you can go for very little money. We have DVC (Disney Vacation Club), which is Disney’s version of a time share. Sure, there was a chunk of change to put down in the beginning, but we essentially have pre-paid lodgings at Disney until 2057, when our contract expires. So when we set up a trip, we’re not having to think about paying for our lodging. And even if we weren’t DVC and wanted to go regularly without spending a lot, Disney has Value resorts that let you have the luxury of staying on property, without having to shell out a large amount of cash. And with features like the dining plan and free transportation, many other expenses are easy to handle or non-existent. It would be great to take frequent trips to Europe or other exotic countries, but just the airfare alone for two people would equal the total cost for some of our average Disney trips.



4. Food!

I love the food at Disney – there are SO many choices! We are NOT talking typical amusement park food! I mean, of course you can get that there too, but there are so many different things to try! While at Disney, we avoid burgers like the plague. We stick to the other restaurants. Our favorite restaurants feature Indian cuisine, Greek food, African fusion, Asian flavors, Pacific island flavors, and so much more! We don’t eat out very much at home, but at Disney, the food is one of the stars. And the restaurants have every bit as much detail as the attractions! And we always do the dining plan option, so we eat all these amazing meals at a very low cost.



5. Nostalgia.



I’ve talked about nostalgia before in a different note. It’s a powerful emotion. I have tons of it. I first visited Disney World when I was a little girl in 1984. That very first trip was so magical to me. I don’t remember every moment, but I DO remember LOTS of moments. My little life was changed and would never be the same. After that first trip, our grandparents took my sister and I on several subsequent trips before I got to high school.



Before our second trip, my grandfather let me study the Disney book and maps to help in the planning and preparation. I studied it all and memorized the maps. I felt SO important when we entered the Magic Kingdom on that next trip and my grandparents asked me how to get to a certain ride or a certain restaurant. Mom-Mom did ALL the rides with us, as Pop-Pop’s heart condition prohibited him from riding many of the attractions. But we still were all together most of the time, having a blast!



My grandfather passed away in 1996. Those childhood trips are some of my best memories that I have with him. I still cherish them so dearly. Every time I go to Disney, I think of Pop-Pop and the wonderful times we had together in this magical place.



That emotional connection became even stronger when I was in high school, and our band marched in the parade in Magic Kingdom. Here I was in my favorite place, marching down Main Street, with the castle straight ahead and people cheering all around us. What a rush! And I was in Disney with my friends! It was so cool!



6. Memories yet to come.

On every trip, you make more special memories. We had a wonderful honeymoon in Disney, where I started the conversion of a new Disney addict in my husband. I had a blast going with my parents and grandmother for an all-adults trip. Daddy still talks about Soarin’. (It’s now his favorite ride!) I had an amazing girls-only trip with friends. And I look forward to our big trip in 2012 when we get to give my nieces their first Disney trip.





So you see, I have many reasons why I love Disney so much. It’s not because I have an obsession with Mickey Mouse – Mickey’s great and all, but he really has nothing to do with my love of Disney World. I really don’t think ANY of the characters in the Disney lexicon have anything to do with my love of Disney World. This place really stands alone in it’s own specialness. I’ll keep going back. I’ll enjoy it with my family and with my friends.
 
Thanks for sharing...do you mind if I use that quote?

Most of my colleagues just don't get it, my in-laws went one time 20 yrs ago and can't believe there is anything left that we have not done, my husbands co-workers tease him for going so often (and now call him "Disney Dave":rotfl:)

I have come to the conclusion that there are some people who will just never understand and I count it as a blessing that they will not be crowding the parks and getting fastpasses ahead of me. :rotfl2:

So happy that I found this community of Dis fans.:grouphug:

Please, go right ahead and use the quote!
 
So the other night we were at dinner and the waitress brought us a bunch of ketchup packets- approximately 20 of them (for the four of us!). My DH asked if he could have a ketchup, and we all tossed them to him. He said, no I didn't yell.....we all knew that he was talking about... yelling for ketchup at WCC, one of our fav's for dinner. I bet you guys know what I'm talking about. I can't go to work and tell the funny story, because no one else will find it the least bit amusing! We just sat there and laughed and laughed.
 
It's the not knowing before you go what magical momments will happen on the upcoming trip that keeps us going back to the Mouse House. Some how, some way, something happens each trip when you feel that warm fuzzy joy, and you know why you're there. It could be smallest of things like having about 20 minutes alone with Donald Duck and your two DDs, but it happens each and every trip, at least for us. And for that, I am both grateful and sticking with a winner. From the popularity of this thread it looks like I'm in with some good company.:goodvibes:goodvibes:goodvibes
 
So many reasons...and so many of them have already been stated.

But for me its still the memories yet to come, I hope there is many having 3 BEAUTIFULL Grand-Daughters now I am truelly amazed at how fun things can be all over again!... Shawnpirate:
 
So I love this thread for all the same reasons everyone else does too! Our story is slightly different...we just turned 30 and HAVE kids but friends and family still don't understand us either.

My parents took me on my first trip to WDW in 1987 they actually loaded up myself, my two sisters,my brother and my cousin for a road trip leaving from Maine to WDW. They did this for us kids because a few months prior my cousin (the sister of the cousin on the trip with us) was kidnapped,raped and murdered. Obviously this was a devastating time in our family and everyone was struggling to find any sort of joy. So what better way to celebrate having each other and working together to cope with such a tragedy than go to WDW! Going helped the family talk, bond and create some happy memories during such a horrible time. Being so young at the time(6) I don't remember every detail but remember bits and pieces. Once home I would watch home movies and look at pictures for years and years to come.

Later in life my sister married and her husband was in the Army. They were stationed in Orlando. I couldn't wait to get there to see her. I'd recently started dating my now husband and told him about my trip to Disney and how I loved it so much but have never been able to get back. So he surprised me with a trip to see my sister and go back to Disney. He had never been either! Long sappy story short we went to Disney and had the best trip of our lives. We spent time with my sister staying at her house going to the parks and falling in love at WDW. This was in 2001, we have gone every year some times multiple times since with the exception of 2003 & 2006 the years we had our daughters.

My sister and family have since moved back to Maine and sort of understand our obsession with Disney and Orlando, but are very financially critical and don't see the value in a time share. Disney or otherwise. My parents don't get it at all and I tell them all the time they started it! There is sooo much emotional attachment to Disney for us. Our girls love to go and the time spent with them happy is priceless....needless to say we bought into DVC last Dec and have our first trip coming in September but haven't told any of our friends or family because we don't want to hear about why they think it's a dumb choice. It really sucks to have to tone down or hide your happiness because of others opinions. That's why I'm thankful for the Dis....here I can share in my excitement with others who share the same opinions or feelings as we do....strangers or not...on here we are a community of friends!


Ps....JENSOP...love your post...it says it all!:thumbsup2
 

















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