For life...take three...... NEW THREAD ALERT. PG 243

[Leger13]

Hey all.....hope everyone is doing well...havent been here for about 2 weeks.......just so busy........lots going on here......final touches on the house I am flipping.....should be on the market this weekend...
final touches on my basement......hooked up the surround sound system late last night...have a 50" plasma on the wall!!........My stepson came downstairs last night and said " I am never going to leave this basement".......it made me feel good!!!!! I'm going to take some photos and will post them here.....

Bad news...my DS16 moved out on me.....its killing me.......He is driving now and I have been contacted by the police about his driving several times.....so I have taken his car and cell phone away several times......A few weeks back I was called by the school police officer (yes they have a city cop at the school all day, every day) he was at some kids house trying to get in a fight with him.....the school had them both in the office for 45 minutes talking it out.....so I took the car and cell phone away again......the next day I came home from work and he left his house key and car keys on the counter....cleared his bedroom out......moved to his moms.....Of course my ex told me she wouldnt take his car or phone away...said I was using those things as a tool.........D A M N straight skippy.....those things are priveleges........Well, found out this week they went out and bought him a car.....got him a cell.........nice huh?? I am furious......my son wont even talk to me, always is "out" when I call.......I found out he his failing trig. in school.......his mom says "some kids just arent good at math".....so I guess he doesnt even have to try......just fail at it......
I saw him at the football game friday, he just turned and walked the other way...he is dressing like a little hood rat now.......makes me sick.....
Sorry to dump all this on you all.......just venting.....hurting........
Enjoy those kids while they are young!!!!!!!

I need my disney trip where everything is good and innocent!!!!


BTW:

YOU LADIES ROCK!!!!

Oh man UJ I'm so so sorry to hear about your struggles with your son. I just can't imagine how awful that must be. I will be praying for you and your son.

 

[cherbear]

Oh man UJ I'm so so sorry to hear about your struggles with your son. I just can't imagine how awful that must be. I will be praying for you and your son.

ditto

Geesh and isn't she a piece of work?? Trying to be his "favorite" by giving him whatever he wants, when she KNOWS it's just going to hurt him in the end!! Unless she's just COMPLETELY dense!

 

[lovebuzzandwoody]

ditto

Geesh and isn't she a piece of work?? Trying to be his "favorite" by giving him whatever he wants, when she KNOWS it's just going to hurt him in the end!! Unless she's just COMPLETELY dense!

Yes... she is a piece of work and she is completely dense. I just hope that one day my niece and nephew will realize what a great dad they have. The whole thing just makes me so sad.

 

[Leger13]

Yes... she is a piece of work and she is completely dense. I just hope that one day my niece and nephew will realize what a great dad they have. The whole thing just makes me so sad.

I hope so too Love. When they get older and see her for what she really is. Same goes for my neices and nephews with their Dad. My oldest neice is already seeing her Dad in his true light. Hopefully UJ's kids will start to realize it sooner than later too. Those kinds of situations just make me so sad to hear about.

 

[kaoden39]

Hey all.....hope everyone is doing well...havent been here for about 2 weeks.......just so busy........lots going on here......final touches on the house I am flipping.....should be on the market this weekend...
final touches on my basement......hooked up the surround sound system late last night...have a 50" plasma on the wall!!........My stepson came downstairs last night and said " I am never going to leave this basement".......it made me feel good!!!!! I'm going to take some photos and will post them here.....

Bad news...my DS16 moved out on me.....its killing me.......He is driving now and I have been contacted by the police about his driving several times.....so I have taken his car and cell phone away several times......A few weeks back I was called by the school police officer (yes they have a city cop at the school all day, every day) he was at some kids house trying to get in a fight with him.....the school had them both in the office for 45 minutes talking it out.....so I took the car and cell phone away again......the next day I came home from work and he left his house key and car keys on the counter....cleared his bedroom out......moved to his moms.....Of course my ex told me she wouldnt take his car or phone away...said I was using those things as a tool.........D A M N straight skippy.....those things are priveleges........Well, found out this week they went out and bought him a car.....got him a cell.........nice huh?? I am furious......my son wont even talk to me, always is "out" when I call.......I found out he his failing trig. in school.......his mom says "some kids just arent good at math".....so I guess he doesnt even have to try......just fail at it......
I saw him at the football game friday, he just turned and walked the other way...he is dressing like a little hood rat now.......makes me sick.....
Sorry to dump all this on you all.......just venting.....hurting........
Enjoy those kids while they are young!!!!!!!

I need my disney trip where everything is good and innocent!!!!


BTW:

YOU LADIES ROCK!!!!

Oh geez UJ. There are words to describe women like your ex and they are not meant for polite company. There are no magic words I can say to help you, I wish there were. I'm sorry that you are going through this. Hurry up Disney time UJ needs it.

 

[cherbear]

what a LONG day! Tomorrow I will be in New Orleans taking an advanced Excel class. I hope they don't teach ANYTHING I already know. There are just some things I am so fuzzy on. So I'm hoping to learn something.

I am also hoping the weather is decent for my drive in and back home. I don't have to be there til 8 (whereas I come in at 7 here) and will presumably be leaving early as they usually don't go all the way til 5. I think til 4 tomorrow. So hopefully it won't be too bad.

 

[Trentmom]

Hey all.....hope everyone is doing well...havent been here for about 2 weeks.......just so busy........lots going on here......final touches on the house I am flipping.....should be on the market this weekend...
final touches on my basement......hooked up the surround sound system late last night...have a 50" plasma on the wall!!........My stepson came downstairs last night and said " I am never going to leave this basement".......it made me feel good!!!!! I'm going to take some photos and will post them here.....

Bad news...my DS16 moved out on me.....its killing me.......He is driving now and I have been contacted by the police about his driving several times.....so I have taken his car and cell phone away several times......A few weeks back I was called by the school police officer (yes they have a city cop at the school all day, every day) he was at some kids house trying to get in a fight with him.....the school had them both in the office for 45 minutes talking it out.....so I took the car and cell phone away again......the next day I came home from work and he left his house key and car keys on the counter....cleared his bedroom out......moved to his moms.....Of course my ex told me she wouldnt take his car or phone away...said I was using those things as a tool.........D A M N straight skippy.....those things are priveleges........Well, found out this week they went out and bought him a car.....got him a cell.........nice huh?? I am furious......my son wont even talk to me, always is "out" when I call.......I found out he his failing trig. in school.......his mom says "some kids just arent good at math".....so I guess he doesnt even have to try......just fail at it......
I saw him at the football game friday, he just turned and walked the other way...he is dressing like a little hood rat now.......makes me sick.....
Sorry to dump all this on you all.......just venting.....hurting........
Enjoy those kids while they are young!!!!!!!

I need my disney trip where everything is good and innocent!!!!


BTW:

YOU LADIES ROCK!!!!

Oh wow UJ

That is just plain awful

Your ex is a piece of work

Your son only went there because he knows he can get away with whatever he wants

I hope as he matures, he will see the light and realize what an awesome dad he has that loves him very much

Poor Trent but glad the shot was fast. And what a treat getting to go see the Toy Story double feature afterwords. Glad he was well behaved for it. We had a cranky baby in our theater.

Yeah, he was so upset. Movie sure helped

That stinks u had cranky baby. We had one..but parents took them out and they left

Yes... she is a piece of work and she is completely dense. I just hope that one day my niece and nephew will realize what a great dad they have. The whole thing just makes me so sad.

I hope so too Nicole

 

[Trentmom]

what a LONG day! Tomorrow I will be in New Orleans taking an advanced Excel class. I hope they don't teach ANYTHING I already know. There are just some things I am so fuzzy on. So I'm hoping to learn something.

I am also hoping the weather is decent for my drive in and back home. I don't have to be there til 8 (whereas I come in at 7 here) and will presumably be leaving early as they usually don't go all the way til 5. I think til 4 tomorrow. So hopefully it won't be too bad.

Hope you learn some new stuff tomorrow and you have a good drive

 

[lovebuzzandwoody]

Any word from Nikki? Is she still in the hospital?

 

[1gr8mouse]

Thanks for all the positive feedback ladies........I appreciate it more than you will know.......
I text my son every day, just tell him I love him......he doesnt reply.....oh well, I can only do so much........

If any of you are looking at rental cars for the upcoming trip.....Alamo has dropped prices finally.......I can give you codes if you need them..........
REMEMBER UJ RULE #1- Rent a freakin car already!!!!

 

[kaoden39]

Thanks for all the positive feedback ladies........I appreciate it more than you will know.......
I text my son every day, just tell him I love him......he doesnt reply.....oh well, I can only do so much........

If any of you are looking at rental cars for the upcoming trip.....Alamo has dropped prices finally.......I can give you codes if you need them..........
REMEMBER UJ RULE #1- Rent a freakin car already!!!!

As long as you tell him that you love him he knows you care. He still needs that reassurance whether he admits it or not.

 

[lovebuzzandwoody]

I am driving my car silly... I don't need a rental!

And... you are a great dad... he will figure that out. Just keep doing what you are doing.

 

[kaoden39]

Any word from Nikki? Is she still in the hospital?

I don't know. I think I will text her tomorrow. It is too late tonight.

 

[1gr8mouse]

I am driving my car silly... I don't need a rental!

What are you doing on your trip?? Staying put or trying to change resorts??? Any word on Grandma and what she is doing....she is here in BC now, going with us to Trav's game friday night!!!!

 

[1gr8mouse]

what a LONG day! New Orleans

I thought it was Na Leans ??? Any way have fun....

 

[lovebuzzandwoody]

I don't know. I think I will text her tomorrow. It is too late tonight.

Hi Chele! You are right... hopefully she is sleeping somewhere!

What are you doing on your trip?? Staying put or trying to change resorts??? Any word on Grandma and what she is doing....she is here in BC now, going with us to Trav's game friday night!!!!

I haven't changed resorts yet. I guess I'm getting close enough to start calling. I HAVE to get OUT of Sports! Did you get your night added?

Gramma Otis is joining us at the MK.... that is all I know. Don't know if she is coming over the night before or what. You know her, she won't decide until right before cuz that is the way she rolls.

 

[Trentmom]

Any word from Nikki? Is she still in the hospital?

I totally suck

I texted her I think it was yesterday and she said she was being released.

I hope she is still home...

You can text her..If she asleep, am sure it on vibrate

Thanks for all the positive feedback ladies........I appreciate it more than you will know.......
I text my son every day, just tell him I love him......he doesnt reply.....oh well, I can only do so much........

If any of you are looking at rental cars for the upcoming trip.....Alamo has dropped prices finally.......I can give you codes if you need them..........
REMEMBER UJ RULE #1- Rent a freakin car already!!!!

Hey UJ

He still needs to hear that, even if he acts like he does not care. I am sure he will come around


Hey......I like the bus smell, remember

 

[Trentmom]

Hi Chele! You are right... hopefully she is sleeping somewhere!



I haven't changed resorts yet. I guess I'm getting close enough to start calling. I HAVE to get OUT of Sports! Did you get your night added?

Gramma Otis is joining us at the MK.... that is all I know. Don't know if she is coming over the night before or what. You know her, she won't decide until right before cuz that is the way she rolls.

what day do you get there? 3rd? People last day to cancel then would be October 19th. SO I would start calling them...I bet some rooms will open up

 

[lovebuzzandwoody]

Hi Sharky! Thanks for the info on Tat.

You don't suck.

YOU ROCK!

UJ says so!


Aw, that reminded me of Uncle John Says!

Good times!

 

[lovebuzzandwoody]

what day do you get there? 3rd? People last day to cancel then would be October 19th. SO I would start calling them...I bet some rooms will open up

Yeppers! That's my plan! I'll begin my attack tomorrow!

And I guess I should think about paying off my trip! Anyone know how late I can add the DDP? I think it's up to a week before but I can't remember.