Planning to take the family on our first Disney Cruise, but I am very overwhelmed by the number of choices of staterooms on the different ships. We are a family of 5 with children ages 14, 9, and 4. Looking at the Magic and Fantasy for a 7 day cruise. Which category stateroom should we choose and a verandah is not a must? Actually would probably prefer a room without a verandah due to the 4 year old.