Me too but the way he was behaving yesterday is making me think twice. I have warned him that I do not want to take a "whiner" or a "baby" on this trip. I don't think I could have the heart to pull the plug on him going but yesterday, wow was close!
I hope he and Gaby get to be buddies too!
You know that sounds just like Gaby (AKA Gravy Shrimptoast) We have come up with a system for both boys for good behavior for the next few months.....(although both my boys are awkward boys in the fact that they usually behave really well most of the time...it's odd....) but we created the Disney Happiness Points Chart. It's made out of Black and Yellow paper with Red crayon (tee hee) and the boys had a whole swearing in of becomming Disney Cast Members and as such had to act like Cast Members and would be paid in Disney Happiness Points. Cast Members don't want to be happy all the time, but they have to. They don't want to be helpful all the time, but they have to, etc. Make up your own swearing in.......

Anyway....anytime we catch them being nice to each other, doing the dishes without being asked, takign out the trash etc...they get Disney Happiness Points....they can't mention they are doig something nice to get them, otherwise, they dont' get paid....we can ask them/tell them to do something and how many Happiness Points they will get for doing such thing. Happiness points can also be taken away for bad behavior or for not doing what was asked..... 5 Happiness points (hash marks) = $1.00 to be spent any way they wish on the
Disney Cruise......It has worked well for behavior...especially for Gravy, who has a lot more behavior "Challenges" than Nicko......Nicko has also done the dishes several times this week without even being asked...unloaded and loaded the dishwasher! I was floored........although he lost 2 points for not telling us his science project due date was today- the 20th instead of the 23rd as was written on all our paperwork.....they had been told the new date all week, and we only found out last night...yeah, loosing a few points there buddy! Anyway, you may want to make your own version and see if it works....may help for the next 3 months and 4 weeks....

Great talking with you again Mati...maybe we should have the boys start writing each other.......???