Matlock42373, I think you should start by reviewing the incredible information that
Dreams Unlimited Travel put together almost two years ago. They stayed in every single on-site WDW resort over a 30-day period. To find all this info, just click on the
Dreams Unlimited Travel's "Around The World In 30 Days Tour" link. They have some photos and lots & lots of streaming video of the resorts and their rooms.
Youve got 6 adults and 2 children and 2 infants. You didnt state whether or not all of you were related. If this is all family, then your room choices would be a heck of a lot easier to sort out. I have traveled to WDW with friends. And I have traveled to WDW with family. It was always easier for me to figure out what room accommodations to book for family since the bulk of the group grew up together as children and the rest of the group grew up together as adult in-laws.
For my large group vacations I have done the following. Two times I have booked two-bedroom suites at the GF (and also the YC). The rest of the times I have booked two-bedroom villas and studios at the BW (would have gone the Grand Villa route but my parents wanted to be separate from the rest of us, thus I got them their own studio room). For my last vacation, I got separate resort rooms and also a suite (that was a 3-1/2 week vacation that encompassed nine family members coming and going at various points throughout the trip, with resort hopping thrown in here and there, too).
Please let us know the breakdown of your group (who is family, who are friends, who are strangers that are just along for the ride, hee hee). Once you give us an idea of the makeup of your group, well probably be better able to suggest a few accommodations for you to consider. Also, do you all want to stay "put" or would resort hopping be something that you'd consider? And do you know what Resort Area you want to stay in -- the Magic Kingdom, Animal Kingdom, or Epcot resort areas? How long is this vacation going to be? Lastly, is this the first time to WDW for any or all of you?