Minnesota,
I had gestational diabetes with both my DDs. (now they are 7 & 8).
First - this is NOT your fault. I also had tremendous guilt, but was told again and again, this did not happen because of anything that I did. I am certain same for you! You are doing the right thing by getting the right tests and going to meet with the diabetic nutritionist.
As far as what to eat - for me, serving size was a big deal. I can't say I knew the proper serving sizes till this point in my life. It is important to combine your carbs and proteins - so for instance if you are going to have crackers, have a serving size of cheese or peanut butter with it. My big treat was a half cup of low fat ice cream, with a choc. graham cracker on top. Also, try to avoid fruit juices as they go into the blood stream and raise glucose levels much faster than a serving of fruit.
You can get through this and have a perfectly healthy baby and go back to normal levels yourself!
I did wind up needing insulin to help manage mine, but not everyone does...and if you happen to need insulin, you can do it...its for your baby and you!
I thought of it this way - because of the gestational diabetes, I received even better care than if it was a normal pregnacy. I saw a high risk ob, in addition to my ob, I had non-stress tests 2 -3 times a week, I had ultra sounds about every other week. I felt very well looked after.
I did have C-sections with both due to size and baby position. Both my girls were early by about two weeks. 8lb 11oz. and 8lb 14 oz.
Trying to remember what else you might have questions about...
Please PM me if you have any other questions.
Best regards,
Pam