Just stopping by to see if BCB stopped back by to comment on his thread. Hmm, I guess not.![]()
He hasn't, but Jessica86 has.

Just stopping by to see if BCB stopped back by to comment on his thread. Hmm, I guess not.![]()
Ah well, when she started class her hours were different. This has been for the last 4 weeks. I have no idea what the syllabus says, and she made no mention of it.
My thoughts are that she is an adult woman, with adult responsibilities, doing all she can to further / improve herself. It isn't like she is an 18 year old kids who is a wiseguy. In her shoes, I do believe I agree with what she said, entirely. Plus, she paid the money, so she's supposed to get taught.
BTW, this is a community college class we are talking about, not Ivy League or anything. To me, it just sounds like a professor that is too full of himself.
I think online classes are a great idea......as far as the distractions from someone walking into class, it is quite a pain but college prepares us for a career and the "real world". Distractions are always a part of that world, while on the job a person may be working on a project but the phone rings, someone stops to talk to them, a sudden meeting is called....it is a total pain but is part of the job. It is unfair that other students have to deal with this distraction but distractions are a part of life. Maybe some of the students don't mind because they think it is great that a mom of three, working a fulltime job is making a great attempt to get a degree. Shouldn't college also teach us how to be tolerant and human?
Nope. College is supposed to prepare you for real life. Real life is neither fair or tolerant.
I had no idea that BCB was PD.![]()
Ah well, when she started class her hours were different. This has been for the last 4 weeks. I have no idea what the syllabus says, and she made no mention of it.
My thoughts are that she is an adult woman, with adult responsibilities, doing all she can to further / improve herself. It isn't like she is an 18 year old kids who is a wiseguy. In her shoes, I do believe I agree with what she said, entirely. Plus, she paid the money, so she's supposed to get taught.
BTW, this is a community college class we are talking about, not Ivy League or anything. To me, it just sounds like a professor that is too full of himself.
The polls should have given it away.![]()
Nope. College is supposed to prepare you for real life. Real life is neither fair or tolerant.
Maybe some of the students don't mind because they think it is great that a mom of three, working a fulltime job is making a great attempt to get a degree. Shouldn't college also teach us how to be tolerant and human?
I used to teach at a community college. If a student was consistently ten minutes late to my class, I would certainly consider booting her. If the student got mouthy in front of the rest of the class, she would not return.Ah well, when she started class her hours were different. This has been for the last 4 weeks. I have no idea what the syllabus says, and she made no mention of it.
My thoughts are that she is an adult woman, with adult responsibilities, doing all she can to further / improve herself. It isn't like she is an 18 year old kids who is a wiseguy. In her shoes, I do believe I agree with what she said, entirely. Plus, she paid the money, so she's supposed to get taught.
BTW, this is a community college class we are talking about, not Ivy League or anything. To me, it just sounds like a professor that is too full of himself.
I loved your whole post but this is really good. I need to remember this one for my DS.[/B]
It's like I've told my kids for years, the world isn't waiting for you to join it. You are the one that has to adapt to the situation.![]()
You said that the graduates at this particular school were prepared for a life of fairness, tolerance and so on. However that would be the students themselves. They are still likely to encounter a lack of fairness and tolerance when dealing with the rest of the world. I think that the world's attitude would be more reflective of the professor's.While I don't agree with the behavior of the OP's daughter in the least, and completely support the Professor's right to remove her from the class (a right reserved and occasionally utilized by professors I had in the course of my undergraduate and both layers of graduate studies), your point is not entirely accurate.
The mission of Jesuit colleges and universities does include preparing their graduates for a life of fairness, tolerance, service to others, etc.
http://http://www.ajcunet.edu/The-Mission-of-AJCU
That having been said, I want to reiterate that the OP's niece sounds like she was way out of line and should have been a grown up and engaged her professor in a mature conversation when her work schedule changed. I worked full time, including extensive travel, while completing my third advanced degree and was always able to negotiate with my professors if I was going to be late, would be traveling and absent from class, etc. This was an advanced course of studies, where the rules on attendance are generally more flexible, but I do know that simply wandering in late would not have been looked upon fondly.
He hasn't, but Jessica86 has.![]()
While I don't agree with the behavior of the OP's daughter in the least, and completely support the Professor's right to remove her from the class (a right reserved and occasionally utilized by professors I had in the course of my undergraduate and both layers of graduate studies), your point is not entirely accurate.
The mission of Jesuit colleges and universities does include preparing their graduates for a life of fairness, tolerance, service to others, etc.
http://http://www.ajcunet.edu/The-Mission-of-AJCU
That having been said, I want to reiterate that the OP's niece sounds like she was way out of line and should have been a grown up and engaged her professor in a mature conversation when her work schedule changed. I worked full time, including extensive travel, while completing my third advanced degree and was always able to negotiate with my professors if I was going to be late, would be traveling and absent from class, etc. This was an advanced course of studies, where the rules on attendance are generally more flexible, but I do know that simply wandering in late would not have been looked upon fondly.
I would think the purpose of an education should focus more towards teaching the subject of the class, barring rude interruptions from inconsiderate students, along with maybe a little dose of personal responsibility.
I also would wonder how much time a mother of three spends with her kids after working full time and going to college.
It's quite the coincidence, isn't it?
Does anyone else think it's kind of strange that a newbie to this board, miraculously finds this thread and who seems to be the only one to agree with the OP, pops up and is defending the niece in this situation? This sounds like a case for Monk to solve.![]()
It's quite the coincidence, isn't it?
Does anyone else think it's kind of strange that a newbie to this board, miraculously finds this thread and who seems to be the only one to agree with the OP, pops up and is defending the niece in this situation? This sounds like a case for Monk to solve.![]()