Thank you all for the advice(and hope!) I will be a bit devastated if we can't get POFQ, but it will just fuel me to start saving sooner for the next trip to make sure it happens then.
But hope is not lost yet so for now I will play it by ear and see what happens, but not pin all my hopes on POFQ. (Although the BF is now hinting doing a Value instead now...better start selling him on POR or CSR)
we are going to do a value next trip, my kids will be older and I figure they will want to spend as much time as possible in the parks so won't spend that much time in the room.
No matter what resort you end up at YOU ARE AT WDW! how can that be anything but wonderful