We go to Disney about once a month and have stayed at CR for most of our 300 trips...But things change and our last trip was our last stay at CR unless we are at a special event hosted there...We really hate the new rooms and its a shame we have loved every remodel they have done until this one!
Plus if you want Tower with Kingdom view you will pay $40. more per night now for the view!!! Also, $7.00 per night parking plus tip and the car parking is outsourced now.
Sorry you didn't like the redone rooms...I personally (along with the rest of my family) LOVE the new rooms. I think they could have done a few things better on the usage front (more drawers/a bit more counter space in the bathrooms) but in general I was actually speechless when I saw them. That doesn't happen very often!!

The redone rooms at the CR are my flat out favorite resort/hotel rooms ever!
However, I understand that not everyone likes what I like. So...I get it that it may not be everyone's cup of tea and actually, I THANK GOODNESS for that. I don't want to be unable to get reservations there because everyone has the same favorite. I myself, was not crazy over the Poly. I know that a LOT of people LOVE the Poly. It's just not "me".
The whole paying for a location thing is in effect at EVERY WDW resort and at almost every non WDW hotel as well. You are right, in the past, you could request a view and hope for it. These days you pay for knowing you WILL get it. However, it is NO recent thing that some rooms cost more because of location. Disney is simply defining a new room catagory (based off of supply and demand). It is a long standing practice of a hotel (any hotel) to charge more for something that more people want and less for something else. You have pool view rooms/ garden view rooms/first floor rooms/etc almost anywhere. Now the CR (along GF and the Poly) all have "Magic Kingdom" view rates. To me, it's like AKL having savannah view rates. It doesn't offend me...and actually makes me happy so I can pay a bit extra to get just what I want if the view in question is important to me.
As far as the parking, we rarely valet park...however, when we do, I always knew I would be paying for it. The Contemp. has plenty of free parking available to all registered guests of the resort. If valet parking was ever free at the Contemp. then it was "before my time" and I was unaware that it had ever happened. Which is possible

I just mean, the whole valet thing doesn't personally bug me. And no matter what WDW resort I went to, I would have to pay a valet if I wanted to make use of their services. If they have outsourced it, I would still expect the same high standards as if it were "in house". If not, I am sure they will hear of it and they will change back. I guess I never gave a second thought as to if the valet who took our car and/or brought it back was a Disney employee or a third party.
Good luck finding a place that fits you. We are all different and Disney cannot appeal to every guest in every instance. And like I said earlier, thank goodness that we all have so many choices so that we can all find something to our own liking!