Day 3: June 13th, 2009:
Today was the day to meet the Divas of Daytime aka Kassie DePaiva (Blair, One Life to Live), Bobbie Eakes (All My Children), and Kathy Brier (Marcie, One Life to Life). The GPS decided to tell me that there was an error, but I actually knew we were not going to be far from where we were the day before and we found BB Kings easy enough, there was a line already at 7:15am:
The fan club president came out to introduce herself to everyone, we met her last year. She hugged Bill and I. She said she was happy to see us again and she had a table reserved for us. Abbey looked at us like what? I had emailed Tonya just to make sure everything was accessible, she remembered us from the previous year and Kassie singing happy birthday to Bill.
We went in and Tonya showed us the table. We were the 3rd table back from the stage. The first table had Bobbie Eakes family, the second had her former manager and a guy from ABC, then our table. It was awesome.
We hadnt been there five minutes when Kassie showed up. Saying there is my Wild Bill:
She hugged Bill, shook hands with us and thanked us for coming. We talked about her storylines and the Divas. She is really a sweet person.
Bobbie and Kathy were talking to people at tables before the event started. That is Kathy standing up in the purple print dress:
This is Bobbie on the right in the white print dress:
They had a continental breakfast, but Bill said he wasnt hungry. Abbey and I got a couple of things and juice.
The Divas of Daytime are what they call their singing group. Bobbie has had a duet on the country music charts with Colin Raye, Kathy has been in many Broadway shows, including the lead in Hairspray, and Kassie has done 3 CDs.
Abbey had no idea how well they could sing. There were some ballads that had her all teary eyed just like me, she kept saying over and over again how much she was enjoying it and thanking us.
After the concert they had a meet and greet. They were lining people up down a couple of stairs, Bill couldnt get over that way. Tonya came and told us to follow her. She had us be first, then the two other people in wheelchairs right behind us.
We talked to all of them, got autographs from the pictures I had printed out. Bobbie and Kathy liked the pics we had of them from Super Soap. Then we got a pic with all 3 of them:
Kassie asked us if we were going to be at the block party again today and we told her we would, she said she would see us there.
We went back to the hotel, picked up Josh and headed back down town. I made sure to have plenty of water with us as it was supposed to be close to 90 degrees that afternoon. We went back to where the wheelchairs should be and Bradford Anderson and Brandon Barash came out to do some stuff for SoapNet:
Now here is where a little misunderstanding happened. The security people knew that Bill and some others were there for autographs off to the side. A woman had even asked me who we were there to see. We told them Bradford Anderson and she said ok. Somehow they thought we wanted to meet Sarah Buxton an upcoming Country singer that was out signing autographs. We told them no we were waiting for Bradford. Well Sarah got done signing for everyone and her people walked her over to Bill. He looked at me like who is this? We talked to her, Bill was smiling because it was cracking him up and she posed for a picture:
A lady on an
ECV talked to us both days, she had been there many times and was telling us about how things worked. Many soap stars seemed to know her. Just about then Cameron Mathison came out to do a SoapNet promo. He saw the lady we had been talking to:
He said hi to her and said he would be over in a little bit. He did the promo, came and talked to the lady then came right to us:
This man is FINE, he is gorgeous, seriously handsome.
About this time Brandon Barash, Rebecca Herbst, and Bradford Anderson came out to do their signing session. Rebecca is teeny tiny. Bill said she reminded him of Belle in her yellow dress:
At the end of their session, the security guy walked Bradford over to Bill (I have no idea why they didnt just let us go up there) and Bradford said hello again, we looked at him funny and he said he remembered Bill from Super Soap.
After he left the Divas came out to sing, Josh actually liked them too and took a couple of pictures:
Kassie saw Abbey and waved to her. She saw us after they got off the stage and waved again. Abbey hadnt gotten any autographs from them earlier in the day so we waited until they came out and just got pictures that they signed. We didnt want to bother them. We were getting ready to leave and Kassie saw Bill and said here take a picture and fan yourself with it, its hot and told us goodbye.
We went to the mall that night, we were all hot and tired. We went into the
Disney store, the Gibson guitar store about many others. Josh was hot and tired and took something I said completely wrong. He went off on me right in the middle of the food court walking off. Abbey said she would go calm him down. It was a mess, I was looking to spike his drink with Cheries ambien at that point.
We went to leave the mall and he wasnt even going to get in the van. He said I can find my own way home. I had bet Bill that I would hear that comment at least once during the trip. He told he didnt want to go anywhere with me including Disney and his family would not go either. I drove up to him and told him to get in the van. We got back to the room no one was talking. We went into the bedroom, they stayed in the living area.
I thought about it and I cant believe this but something Dr. Phil had said popped in my brain.
Do you want to be a right fighter and keep arguing about who is right because the other person is never going to back down and admit they are wrong. I went in there and told Josh I was sorry that I hurt his feelings. His whole demeanor changed, he said he was sorry too jumped up and gave me a huge hug. His dad would never acknowledge his feelings or say sorry so I didnt want to be like that and have tension between us. I asked if he still didnt want to go to Disney. He said he was an idiot for saying that and he was sorry. We all talked for long time and went to bed.