stargazertechie
Toy Story Midway Maniac
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I'm glad you had a great trip with your father. I'm glad you could make it work. I personally would have never tried, so I commend you for your effort!
It honestly didn't take that much more effort than our "normal" trips- and that is why I sing the praises of Disney! We had to rent a scooter, and then get a GAC for an alternate shaded wait area. The ONLY time we needed the shaded area was for the Indy speedway racers. It wasn't the best choice medically for a ride, but Dad hadn't driven a car in 5 months, and he knew this would be his last chance to "drive" during his time on earth, and boy did he love it.
When he got tired we would head back to the resort. We scheduled our days around his naps coinciding with the sunniest/hottest part of the day. There were times he tuckered out before mom and I, so he would head back to the bus by himself, and go back to the room alone. I don't know of many vacations where someone who was medically fragile could do that type of thing without trepidation.
And thats great for your family. But it is not a risk I would want to take nor would I put others in the situation to mitigate. My father passed away at 55. His dying wish was to run a marathon with me. He had heart disease and that was ultimately what did him in. He made it to the end of the driveway during our first practice run. I stopped the training after that. It was too big of a risk and we ended up getting another year with him.
I respect your position, but for those who DO want to live life to the fullest, KNOWING that they are on borrowed time, it is a blessing to have that option. Nothing would have made my dad last longer. He was given 6-9 months in November of 2011. He died in April of 2012. Cancer is a beast like that. He wasn't going to sit on the sidelines and watch life trickle away. He knew he had months left, and he was going to make the most of every one of them. There was nothing that would slow down the progression of his disease at that point, and there was nothing short of staying in isolation that might have prolonged his life. But he didn't want QUANTITY, he wanted quality. We took precautions to avoid immunological issues, but he didn't let a fear of germs keep him from doing what he wanted to do.
A completely seemingly healthy person can die just as suddenly from an undiagnosed medical condition. You can't let "what ifs" stop you from living.