DCPmom2014
Earning My Ears
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- Mar 28, 2014
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As I am reading the discussions about housing while listening to my daughter's experiences as a current CP, my advice to all future CP's is flexibility! My daughter met other girls on her Facebook group prior to starting her program. She found three girls that she really connected to and they decided to try to get a 2 bedroom in Chatham. They made matching shirts, planned out who would bring what, and made other such plans. They were so excited to meet each other when they finally arrived in Florida. They enjoyed hanging out in the parks once they completed their training and had fun celebrating one roommates birthday. Unfortunately, all three of her roommates HATED their jobs. First one quit and a week later another left. My daughter's roommate (actually sharing the bedroom) also talked about leaving but luckily stayed. The other room remained empty for a couple weeks and then two new international CP's were moved into the room. They sound very nice but have different ideas about the apartment, space issues, etc. My daughter was finally adjusting to the change and now they all received a notice that bunkbeds are being moved into their bedrooms and, what was a 2 bedroom/4 person apartment, will now be a 2 bedroom/6 person apartment. There are no choices in the situation and all you can tell your CP'er is "Go with the flow". My advice has been to focus on the positives and let go of the negatives. I am a little concerned about how the recent "space issues" are going to play out adding two more girls to the mix, but in the end they will all need to work it out. So again, my advice to all future CP's is FLEXIBILITY!!!On a positive note: She loves, loves, loves the experience. She works hard and plays hard. She has had so many "Best day ever" that my husband and I have lost count!
So are there no more two bedroom, 4 persons in Chatham any longer? I wonder what they are thinking? That's what we were hoping for. My DD is deciding to go with a random roommate match once she arrives on May 19th but was really hoping for a max of 4. Her grandmother has actually been picking up everything she needs for the room as she lives two hours away. Lamp for night stand, bed risers, etc. If these are now bunkbeds, that changes things!!